I'm so confused. What should i do?

Question

I heard once dat u shouldn't always tell who u r with about ur past relationships...I've know my boyfriend since we were 14yrs old...and although wen went to school 2gether he didn't know i had a crush on him...wat hurt the most, as we got older i end up being with someone else for 3yrs..then it so happen dat my crush who is my boyfriend now was leaving to go to another country and he said to me dat he'll wait for me he actually waited for six years.

I really love him and i know he's the one for me...but i still have this thought in my head preventing me from givin the full 100% dat i want to in our relationship. So i want to know if i should tell him about my past relationships that he doesn't know of????or should i just forget about it and move on with my life lovin him????

Answer 1

Do you want to tell him because it will make you feel better or because it will make him feel better? Has he ever asked about your previous relationships? Do you need to tell him to be honest with him or is it past now so that has no influence on what is happening now?

Make sure you know why you want to tell him and think about how he will feel before you say anything. It may even be worth asking him. Definately there is no need to go into detail or make comparisons. Just remember in a relationship we do things for the other persons benefit, not just our own.

Answer 2

Here is my advice don't offer up the information or even bring up the topic, but if he ask point blank don't lie.

I speak from experience and can definitely relate, I married my highschool sweet heart and we meet when we were 14 yrs old as well.  We have been married for 10 years now and have with kids and are pretty happy.  Don't ever lie but don't offer more than is asked for either.  Just let him know he has always been the one for you.

Answer 3

ENJOY YOUR LIFE AS YOU HAVE BEEN

IN RELATIONSHIPS NO HIDING AND REPENTING LATER

BE HONEST AND YOUR FRIEND MAY LIKE YOU

HIDING AMOUNTS TO CHEATING