I'm so depressed please help me i feel like killing myself?

Question

im fat and my hair is basically a hopeless case.

I've been straightening it for 30 years and the damage definetly shows. Its so thin and fried! I've tried everything, i cut it like 3 inches ABOVE my shoulder, i tried not straightening it but it looks like c**p. I look like i have 3 strands of hair on my head! I feel horrible. Please, give me any treatments that might work.

Answer 1

don't worry they're both easily fixable. i cut my hair pretty short to because it was somewhat damaged and a bit thin. you can get a "weave" i'm not sure how much it costs but they look really nice, celebs like Beyonce and Tyra Banks have them, it's like your own real hair and about the weight thing, be focused and you'll lose it easily, go on a manageable diet, there's tons of diets you can check out on the internet which will help.

Answer 2

don't freaking say your going to kill yourself because of you hair. It's sad enough already that people go on yahoo answers to tell people they are thinking about suicide.

You should re-assess your values if you think your depressed just because your "fat" and have hopeless hair. There is ALWAYS something to do about EVERYTHING, just relax and be rational!

So, why not try a wig? Not a crappy halloween-esque one though, that won't do much for you. You should probably stop straightening you hair, learn to accept it for what it is...unless you really have 3 strands, then go with the wig.

If you have curly or wavy hair there are products you can get at the drug store to enhance these features...a much better option than frying your hair. ...Is there such thing as rogain for women, check that out.

Just don't depress yourself over your appearance, i'm sure you've got more going for you than just that...i.e. family, friends, personality..etc.

Answer 3

Calm down, that happens to lots of people. Theres nothing that a period of hydration and oil teraphy wont fix. Also try egg mixed with avocado, it may sound weird but eggs have protein thats good for your hair and avocado has essential oils. Smile lifes good!

Answer 4

First off.. you need to not say that you feel like killing yourself because your talking about things that can be fixed. your hair...if you say that you flat iron your hair everyday you need to be using some sort of heat protect-ant. so that you don't damage your hair. you can also go to a salon and get some sort of treatment for your ENDS. or use some deep conditioners that are super moisturizing and have protein. and ONLY put the conditioner on your ENDS so that it doesn't weigh your hair down, lots of people tend to put it on there scalp and that can cause your hair to weigh down especially fine hair. and hair closest to our scalp is healthiest. good luck and about your weight GIRL.. just start trying to workout and eat better.. need some motivation try Jillianmichaels.com i love her!!!

Answer 5

Don't feel depressed about your hair, woman lose their hair just as men do. Simple as that. Try a hair thickening shampoo (it's what i use), go see a dermatologist to check out your skin on your scalp to see what could be done to help grow it back, search for some hair restoring product made for woman like rogaine or something like that. You can also ask a hairdresser for they're preferences. Hope it goes well.  

Answer 6

GO TO A HAIR PLACE AND GET EXTENTIONS, WONCE U GROW UR HAIR BACK OUT DONT STRAIGHTEN IT, USE A STRAIGHTNING SPRAY. CUT INTO A CUTE BOB. WELL ITS ACTUALLY KINDA HARD TO TELL WHAT TO DO WITH NO PIICS.........

HOPE THIIS HELPED!!!!

PLEASE DONT KILL URSEELF I CAN TELL UR GORGOUS!!!

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Answer 7

it's good you look like tweety!! juss wear a wig!

Answer 8

First of all, Just because you're fat does not mean you can't be fabulous!Shoot I weigh over 200lbs at 5'1or2 and no one can tell me I'm not Fly.If you don't like the way I look Don't look at me because I enjoy looking at myself! Bump what every one else is talking about! Relaxers are not the problem. It's how they are applied that causes the problem. Stop straightening it for a while,and get some deep conditioning done to it. Something to add protein and moisture back to the hair. Try wet setting it for a while.Like a wrap or a roller set. Always use a good setting lotion. I like Kera-care wrap foam lotion or Mizani conditioning setting lotion,and oil sheen for shine. Next time you have your hair relaxed apply it to the new growth only. Never ever apply relaxer to hair that already been straighten.That is a quick way to get bald headed fast.And by all means get some counseling if you really feel like harming yourself. Good luck with everything!

Answer 9

If you're fat do something about it, exercise and lose weight. As for your hair go to a professional hair salon and they'll probably know what to do. They'll give you advice and recommend shampoos etc. that you can use to treat your hair.  

Answer 10

if youre fat, thats probably your fault dontcha think?

and your hair is not a problem....sounds like you could use a wig, growing it out (it willl take a year to restore your hair probably), and u should probably go to a hairstylist and they will help you with tips and products!!

Answer 11

well its ok first take a deep breath then another now what you should do is talk to ur hair dresser and if she or he cant help u then go to a wig store if u really have three hairs then try different styles with ur hair and get a wig i feel sry for u i hope this helps and dont worry about ur hair but make sure u hav cute clothes and make up

Answer 12

Aww don't feel that bad, it's fixable!

Either go to a chemist and get some hair stuff to put back the moisture and strengthen ur hair or a natural medicine shop willhave some oils and balms and so on...

or go to use hair dresser and get fake hair put in until your hair naturally heels or get the hair dresser to help you and give you some advice and oils and stuff like that.

Don't worry it be alright once your hair revives itself

Also when your gets healthier u can get it chemically straightened and then u don't have to straighten it any more!

Answer 13

I had suffered hair loss and was like omg what the h**l am I going to do... I am a hairdresser and female... what I did and if someone would have told I would have done this... I would have called them a liar.

I had took a medication that caused a dramatic amount of hair loss and like I said being a female it is devastating.. and a hairdresser.

I went to look at wigs... had on my dark glasses was going to just walk in and out... within 3 minutes after walking into the store I pointed and said "that is me"... it was a cute messy cut... perfect color... $65.00... wore it out of the store... I went and dropped by a friends to see what she thought... she didn't even notice... I am serious about this... it was great..

I was able to stop messy with my hair giving it a chance to regrow... and now it's all good... I still have the wig and it help me get through a tough time... and you know this is what cancer patients go through and thank god I wasn't dealing with that... hair loss can be the worst, heartbreaking!!!

Don't let this get you down... there can be worse things to happen and I know you know this deep down... in the moment it can seem hopeless... I hope my stupid little story gives you insight or a laugh cause I was like bald on top...

Hope this helps;-)))

Answer 14

go bald. wait. grow it out. the end!