I'm so embarrassed! How can I fix this?

Question

I feel like a moron. Last night I had a few glasses of wine and texted the one person I never wanted to talk to again, the one who has treated me like trash and who I have no respect for. Awhile ago we had some 'sexual encounters', but I eventually felt like his toy and stopped talking to him. So last night I texted him about getting some things of mine that he had back. He told me once that being friends would be awkward because I was seeing someone else. I somehow mentioned that I was single and asked if being friends was still too complicated. He didn't reply. Now I am wondering if he mistook the whole thing for some sort of booty call. IT WASN'T. I guess I was just looking for some kind of explanation for the things that had happened between us. Now I just feel dumb because I went back on my decision to not talk to him. I do not want to be his friend. I know that this happened because I was drinking. I don't need any observations on how stupid I am. Just if anyone has been in this kind of situation or has any suggestions on how to fix things please help

Answer 1

The only way to fix it is to ignore him, that'll make him realise it wasn't a booty call. Get your stuff back first. Contact him again saying that you want your things, then keep cool and business like when you get them. Then never contact him again! He'll soon realise that you don't care about being his friend, or anything else. You won't have to feel embarassed. :)

Answer 2

MAYBE HE DIDNT GET THE TXT

Answer 3

Don't worry about it just move on.

Answer 4

just let it be

Answer 5

If you really texted him to get back things that belonged to you, than you probably should of dealt with just that.  However you seem to have some unresolved issues with him but he obviously does not want to deal with them and you.  For your own sake, make arrangements to get your things back through a mutual friend and then you should move on, your feelings that you were a sexual toy to him were most likely true. Learn from this and meet new people, wasting your feelings on him is keeping you from meeting someone special. You are not a moron, but you will be if you keep going back for more. All the best and good luck.