I'm so frustrated and depressed because...

Question

my mom won't let me go to my friend's house just cuz he's 20 and in college....I'm 15 I'm not a baby he's a nice guy what's the big deal?? she let us go to the mall and the movies and out to dinner once reluctantly but now she says I can't ever talk to him again why not???

And she got all pissed cuz he sent me a letter tellinng me that he loves and cares for me. and wants to make me feel good ..she shouldn't have read it

she even let him pick me up from school so why doesn't she trust me to go to his house

he's one of my only true friends ppl at school don't like me and he makes me feel better when he holds me and talks to me he's really sweet she never understands anything why is she this way??

Answer 1

my mother did that also to a boy i knew when i was 15 but he was 18. they just get worried that something could go wrong, etc him raping you or what not. you could instead invite him over and let her talk to him more to maybe make her feel more comfortable and trust him better.

Answer 2

Step 1: Ensure your emotion is controlled daily. Don't over reacted, stay calm and don't get worry easily

Step 2: Think before your action. Don't repeat her past experience on herself. Remind herself from time to time.

Step 3: Be confident to yourselves. Remember everyone is the winner. "Only One sperms out of millions fertilize an egg"

Step 4: Get a group of close friends to share your experience and get some activities that would occupied your time

Step 5: Increase scope of life. Meaning that she should involve in more social activities like dancing, outing and others.

Step 6: Put a rubberband on the wrist. If there is a negative thought, Tighten the rubber band and release it. Hence the effect of the pain would be able to reduce the possibility of negative thought.

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Answer 3

because he is 20 and you are 15.

plain and simple. imagine if you had a daughter and this was happening to her.

there is no need for him to be talking to a 15 yr old girl at that age, he should be having fun in college with college girls.

your mom is just watching out for you,

no matter how great this guy is, you never know,

shes just being your mom, give her abit of a break,

Answer 4

Your mom should never have allowed you to do anything with this guy as he is too old for you.He could go to jail for being involved with a minor.Especially the way he is talking.Listen to your mom even though you don't want to as she is right in what she is doing.Protecting your child no matter how old or young you are is the right thing to do.Wait till you are a little older before you let anyone talk to you so sweetly just to get what they want.As you will be the one who will pay the price in the end.

Answer 5

because she is a mom and im a kid but i understand why she is saying this. if i had a kid i wouldnt let her either

Answer 6

she doesnt want you to end up getting physically or mentally hurt from this older boy... but i totally understand where your coming from

Answer 7

He could end up in prison, with a record as a sexual offender! Marked for life!!! Do you want that? Wait until you are of legal age before you go over to his house, or even consider having s*x, but I would let him know what your mother has said. Maybe he is prepared to wait, and to discuss with her only seeing you under circumstance she approves of. Otherwise he may just be a sexual predator: learn to differentiate the two!

Answer 8

At 18 you can do whatever you want. Tell her that the reason that she is doing this is because she thinks she raised you wrong. If she felt that she raised you right then she will trust you. I do not suggest this but some run away for several days to teach their parents a lesson.

I suggest to use fasting like Jesus and Moses did. See site below to see more on how it works. It will scare your mother. Tell your mother to see this site. It says that there are no bad children, only bad parents.

http://www.articlestreet.com/family/pare...

Answer 9

Shes trying to protect you from getting hurt in the end to be honest. :)