I'm so jealous of my sister! Help!?

Question

She is a year younger then me but her body is so much better (bigger b***s, nicer legs, better stomach, etc.) and I love her new haircut. She has really pretty eyes and legs and she is an average height which I am really jealous of seeing as I am tall and hate it! She isn't that smart but she's really creative. I'm so jealous of her sometimes and I hate it! Please help me feel better about myself!

Answer 1

you can t be jealous to anybody neither less your sister. i was like that but its stupid really. why do you hate being tall??? I'm 5

"8 and i Love  it people who are short want to be tall, super models are tall, you cant be ashamed of that, that is beautiful quality of a women.

Answer 2

umm,o...kk...she iish liike your siiter...

Answer 3

First of all you should not compare youself with anyone else, not even your Sister. Just like you made a list of you sister's attributes, make an equally long list of your attributes. Now tell yourself these attributes everyday until you are as familiar and proud of them as of your sister's attributes.

That key is stop focusing on your Sister's attributes and start to build your own WITHOUT comparing your self to your sister. Ask other family members. They probably see other good traits in you that you have not seen in yourself.  Good Luck!!  

Answer 4

Grow up.

Answer 5

only you can make you feel better about yourself, you can't do that over yahoo answers as we do not know you. you are your own person and you should be happy with who you are. i hate myself also but i'm learning to realise i am who i am and i need to accept that. i lost my ex to some really STUNNING girl and she really is amazingly pretty but she is a w***e so i am happy with who i am and one day i'll find someone right for me. she is your sister and i know how it feels to have a sister and it always seems like they're so much better then you but your time will come when she will also hate something that you're good at, it's just the way things are. just try smiling, be happy with who you are :)

Answer 6

Just because someone has bigger b***s, or thinner thighs , does not make them much better. By the way I see It I think your an amazing person for even having the courage to admit that your jealous. Maybe you should go get an awesome pair of shoes or cool earings, so feel just as pretty you really are. I'm tall to and I used to hate how long my legs are, but I realized that all the super models have to be at least 5.8 so Im guessing between you and your sister, you would be the model. Flaunt what you've got, walk with your head held high. don't worry, you're beautiful inside and out! Good luck!!

xoxo

-liz  

Answer 7

Hmm well first of all bodywise dont panic you can still be developing but in the meantime why dont you make the best of what you have, meaning play up your best assest/feautures, dress to suit your body do your hair and make up accordingly, use what you have to make you feel good and if you need help look at magazines or surf the net for people with a similar look. Also why dont you talk to your sister and tell her how you feel yes really she probably has no idea and perhaps she can help you^^. In the meantime though always love yourself you are one of a kind and you should be vey proud of that! Good luck hun.