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I'm so miserable at school?

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It's my freshmen year at a new high school. I'm so miserable at school, I have no friends. I got made fun of and teased, some people just hate me because I'm Asian. I'm treated like I have some kind of contagious disease, for example in lunch, I sit where no one sit next to me, so it was crowded at my table, people said, "I don't want to sit with that nerdy Chinese girl", the person who sat next to me get all mad and quickly gets away from me. Some people at school called me a geek, chinese nerd, ugly *****, and the popular girls judge my clothes. I don't know why I can't make a single friend, I'm very friendly to people, never judge people based on their appearance and never made fun of people. I feel so crappy because I have no friends to talk to. I wish I was at my old school where I was happy and I have real friends.

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  1. I think you should keep searching...you will find a friend!

    Even though people might say, be yourself, don't change blah blah blah,

    sometimes, change is good. Ask your parents if you can get a spa day...go shopping, get a new hairstyle, try to be outgoing...People will see the change and it will shock them at first, but they might actualy start to like you. You say you are already a good person, so you don't need to change that. Be proud of who you are....Maybe you could look at some pictures of those chinese girls and see what kind of styles you like. Try to find some people at school that are your race...Keep trying!! Don't give up! Good luck xo


  2. Hello, Sass. It is OK. They are all racists.They shouldn't treat you like that. OMG!!! I am so angry!!! How could they say things like that?  That is rude.

       I think they are jealous of you because you are much smarter than them. They think they are pretty? Give me a break ! Just look at how much make-up they put on their face and how much money they spent on their clothes.

       Transfer to another school where you can find friends who respect you!!!

       I am Chinese,too. I came to America when I was 15. I am a junior in high school right now and I understand how you feel. I experienced the same thing. I got used to it.

      Sass, don't feel bad about yourself. I believe in you. We are Chinese and we should be proud of our country and our race.

       Be strong.

       加油! 我相信你!

  3. Joining clubs or getting involved in extra curricular activities will help you connect with people who share similar interests.

    People can be shallow and crappy; it may be difficult, but you can't let the narrow-minded people in this world rent space in your head.  Stay true to yourself.

  4. I'll be your friend :) My school never had those kinds of problems; there was always a group for everyone. Maybe you should consider going to a different school. Does your current school focus on athletics a lot? Like, is everyone really into the football/basketball team? My school didn't have either of those and was a lot more academic oriented than the other schools in the area (it was a Magnet school-all magnet, not just having a magnet program) Perhaps you should consider transferring to a school like that.

  5. show some cleavage

    you will have guys on you in no time

  6. i know it's hard to make friends, but don't worry, you will find someone.if some people dont want to be your friend at first, don't give up. look for other people who seem to need a friend. start a conversation, and pretty soon you should have a new friend. or you could join some clubs or after school activities and meet some people there that are interested in the same things as you are. you never know what'll happen. just don't give up. everything will work out.

    :)  

  7. Since your going into freshman year, it's a great opportunity to make new friends! Not many people have many friends going into freshman year because all the middle schools were split up. I know that's how it is for my high school. How you see yourself is how others see you. So if you have a bad self-image, others will since that. Love yourself, and people will like you.

    If you ever need someone to talk to, you can email, the link is in my profile. :)


  8. Talk 2 your parents and u might b able 2 either move school or b home schooled if your that upset! or join sum  clubs and meet people!

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