I'm so sad....... All my hard work seemes to have gone down the drain

Question

Ok so i've always been a good student. but this last year has been horrible. It all started with one class and once i got behind in that everything else went down hill. Im just depressed at the fact that 16 years of hard work could be erased all because of this. I need some positive reinforcement or just the truth. Is it all ruined??

Answer 1

i feel your pain.

this year i was struck down with mono.  and i missed school for 2 1/2 weeks.  the teachers were huge jerks and some work they wouldn't even let me make up!! i had all f's and i'm a total straight A student with a 4.0.  i was kicked out of honor society and it was aweful.  i also missed out on trying out for the school play and so i got the crappiest part ever and i wish they didn't even put me in it once i got better.

once the semester ended i just got back onto all my straight A's and reapplied for Honor Society again.  sometimes things happen...and they suck!! lol but try not to stay down, it just makes you get more behind with all the stress.  just wait till the beginning of the next semester so you can start all over!

good luck!! :]

Answer 2

it's not all ruined! i didn't do my best this year either, and i was disappointed in myself. i really let it bother me for a while. but now, i realize that what's done is done. we can't change the past, but we can change the future! i'm really determined this year to make sure i do well. if you take this approach too, you can do better this year! your higher grades this year will make you look good, because you got them back up. good luck!

Answer 3

no, its not ruined its just a set back but think of it this way now you can only make things better. you have to stand back up when you fall.

Answer 4

Absolutely Not,It's not ruined.I'm 27 years old and educating in IT course.

I was not a bad student (even I was and am!! a good one) since last term

last term my for the first time I failed in 2 lessons and got 9 out of 20.

my whole average came down and I thought it's over and all my works has ruined but when I thing more I realize that in the life there are more bad things that can happen but they don't.just one second think about it .....happen an accident for your parents , you let slip your best friend ,even for yourself ....think about it ...... there become an accident and you have to go to hospital for a week ,I bet that you would agree fail in a whole term but prevent accident,prevent to let slip your friend ,or not to go to hospital .isn't it ?

I think if this really "SMALL Problems" don't happen we can not taste the sweetness of life.

Just think about it and be happy .

you are perfect isn't it ?

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Answer 5

of course it's not. Yes, people put a lot of emphasis on what goes down right now, but your true knowledge and potential is all cumulative, and nothings going to erase what you know and what you've done in the past. This is a rough time for anyone who honestly cares about what they're doing and it can be unbelievably trying, but if you've done as well in the past as you say you have, I'm sure you'll have no problem pulling yourself up and making it through this. Just do everything you can and put the best face you can on it all. Never let 'em see you bleed.