I'm so shy around guys, help!?

Question

i want to make friends with guys, but sometimes they think it's not good to look at when the girl makes the first move...and i wish before our high school ends, i can make friends with the guys i like..help me, because i'm always getting shy around them and when talking to them, i alwyas not feeling comfortable..

Answer 1

When you finally learn to be comfortable around guys its totally worth it, theyr so much better than girls.

to me anyways..

Answer 2

it would always start with a little conversation. start now! ^_^

Answer 3

So, you'd like to be Friends with these guys, right? I find guy Friends a lot friendlier Than girls. Ive got  lot of girlfriends, but i was the same as you when i wanted to be a guy's Friend. It was awkward.

My advice would be to make the first move! Sure, some guys might not like it, but would you like to be their Friend anyway? I made a guy friend because i made the fist move, soon we were really close, and now were seeing each other! You never know! Good luck!

Answer 4

ITS REALLY REALLY EASY FIRST JUST ACCIDENTLY ASK A GUY ABOUT ANYTHING EXCEPT FRIENDSHIP.OUT OF 10 AT LEAT 7 WOULD TRY TO TALK TO YOU ABOUT SOMETHIN ELSE LEAD YOU INTO A NEW FRIENDSHIP.JUST DONT BECOME TOO NEEDY.AND HAVE AN ATTITUDE BUT PLEASE DO NOT SURREENDER TO A GUY WHO COULD TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU

Answer 5

To be SHY is some kind of FEAR: so pay attention:

1.DON'T WORRY at all if anything unfavorable may happen: rejection/disappointment(he is not the one you thought)/change of your mind(you JUST thought you like that behavior or characteristics)...

WHY DON'T WORRY? Since if he deserves you he understands you and your feelings otherwise better he goes away

2.Laws of ATTRACTION: actually these are instinctual but to remind them, here are some:

*ASK for HELP: do ask for help in cases that you know he knows well, and it should be something you yourself could do it too: Example: Finding a research source in the internet!

***The Important Thing Is That You Do Something Together And It Goes On By Itself***

Answer 6

Your Shy>

Answer 7

then talk to me na....

ok lets start...wats ur name?????

Answer 8

Have a mutual friend tell the boy that you like him.   It will save you the embarrassment of rejection.