I'm so unhappy.......???

Question

i do not want to hurt my self or anything I'm just really unhappy i want to do all these things but my family tells me "i can't handled" i always make mistakes and get yelled at when i try to be perfect i get yelled at i get told that i'm self centered people always tell me what i'm thinking but i'm not thinking that? i don't what to do

Answer 1

Maybe you should be more assertive, don't let people tell you that you can't do something. Everyone makes mistakes, that can't be helped,  be like 'im not perfect and niether are you,so shut up'

Don't let anyone tell you what your thinking or what your personality is, they are not you, only you can say who you are.

Sounds like your around negitive people.

My motto is life is too short to be normal, so when ever someone calls me weird or some other thing, I just smile and say thanks, hope you feel better.

Answer 2

It doesn't matter what your parents think about you. What do you think about yourself. You have to gain self confidence. I completely understand how you feel like everyone is yelling at you when your just trying to help. Sometimes you just have to push for what you want. Don't let them hold you back. And I know this sounds crazy, but tell them how you feel. And if that doesn't work you just have to try harder. Its just one of life's mysteries. Why don't people care sometimes? No one will ever know. And who cares if they say you can't handle it. YOU are YOU  so YOU know when you can't handle something better than anyone else in the world. I hope this helps. Good luck!!

Answer 3

Wow, Kid!  can you sneak away from these people who are yelling at you?  You need to hang around with people who love and accept you.  Then you don't have to be perfect or self centered - you can just be you.

Answer 4

I agree with bummin, also you might want to try to think positive thoughts - think everything is going to be okay....nothing negative. hope this helps.

If it gets worse, see a doctor please. Best of luck to you.

Answer 5

switch up your daily routine, a person needs variety in his/her life, don't try to be perfect because no one will ever achieve that, just do everything you do the best you can, and don't rely on others advice too much or you'll lose yourself in the process, listen to yourself.