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I'm starting 7th grade this year and I'm really nervous I'm gona walk into the wrong class and my friends pick

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on me! Please give me some advice

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  1. wow o.o that person wrote alot

    but anyways dont be too nervous cus itll show trust me

    im going into the 7th too and i hate it cus im older than most of them

    i was reading a little of what that other person said and sometimes its not best if u have other friends and u hang out with them

    its cool to have a lot of friends cus it shows your friendly and lots of ppl like you but sometiems it causes drama because one group of your friends may not want u to hang out with the others

    that happened to me last year for the whole 6th grade

    soooooooooooo much drama so i doubt that will be such a good idea

    but if your friends dont really care how much you hang out witht them then hey give it a try


  2. there gonna give you a schedule and when you get it ask your friends if they have the same classes as you and if they do follow them.

  3. if your FRIENDS pick on you then you have mean friends! if you walk into the wrong class who cares! just laugh at yourself and make a joke about it.... life will go on. good luck!

  4. Just get to school early on that first day and find your classroom.  Maybe you will bump into someone else who is trying to find their room and you can help each other.  If you need to, ask a teacher!  They are there to help.  I know!  I am one!

  5. Make sure you go to all the student orientation days. It is very important because it will tell you your classes and you can discover which is one of the most important differences. In middle school you change classes, depending on your school you may have more classes per day, or have a different schedule every other day. Some people will be dealing with more people than others, so that means that you should be friendly (open). Do not have ONE group that you hang out with, if you can manage it, but have several. Remember that you should never be a clique.

    Pick a locker that suits your needs (if your schools allows you to pick them). If you are shorter than some other kids, it would help to pick a bottom locker so that you can reach your locker. If you are tall, pick a top locker so that you don't have to bend over to get to your locker. Make sure that your locker is cool, clean, and correct to the school decorating rules.

    Feel confident and be friendly on the first day of school. Smile at people and be open! Make sure before lunch you make some new friends. In class - well, it might be better if you're waiting outside class so your teachers don't get mad - talk to your fellow students! Look at their schedules see if you have any more classes with them, so you can have someone to walk with.

    Make sure you arrive to class ON TIME. Teachers aren't very happy when you're late, but they might cut you some slack the first week. Always keep a map and your schedule with you!

    Stay on Top of Homework. Now that you're in middle school you will have way more homework, and you will not have teachers help you as much in getting it done on time. Try not to get behind, stay organized. Keep a planner so that you'll remember homework assignments. Some schools will sell, or even give you one, others you have to get your own. Also if you don't have the same classes every day, do your homework the day you get it, don't wait until it's almost due. Participation is the most important part of school, after all.

    Avoid pressure to date. In middle school, the social scene for romance gets more visible. But don't feel pressured into having a boyfriend or girlfriend until you're ready. Girls often mature eariler than boys at this age, so there's often a real gap between girls and boys developmentally.

    Be Yourself. And have fun, those 2 or 3 years will fly by and next thing you know you'll be reading a how to on how to survive high school!

    Treat everyone as you would like to be treated. It may be cliche, but that's due to its truth. Everyone wants to be important, liked and respected, so make them feel that way! Remember, there are some people who are bound to dislike you. From them you can learn what you're doing wrong, and cultivate yourself. Other than that, however, don't mind them! You're self-esteem should never be built on other people's opinions, because no matter how you act, someone always dislikes you.

    Place a premium not on looks, but on personality. Believe it or not, after a while, how attractive or unattractive you are begins to fade after people get to know you. Popular people are often facilitated by good looks, but it's their ability to make people feel comfortable and liked that really puts them on top. Smile, be respectful and kind. Be witty if you're witty, and artsy if you're artsy. Find people with similar interests, and above all, don't try to bend yourself to the will of others.

    Do not try to "nice" people into liking you. Rather, be genuinely caring. If it's not sincere, people will notice eventually, and they'll hate you for it. This, above all, is where most of the nasty games of middle school find their roots.

    Welcome to Puberty. Middle school is the time of life where many children start becoming young adults. (Although you may have already hit this age, or will reach it in high school). You'll have a lot of changes to look forward to.

    Don't take Middle School so seriously. Although it's a big step from the elementary grades to the middle school level, it's just one change out of many.

    Forget What You See on TV or the Media. Middle school is only vaguely what you see on TV, movies, or the like. These are often played by actors much older than middle-school years, and with a writing staff. Your reality will likely be less glamorous, more complicated, but definitely more real.

    tips :you have block scheduling, make sure that you have the right homework on the right days. Bringing your science book to math class won't make your teachers happy, and your back and shoulders won't thank you if you stuff everything you think that you need into your backpack and you only use half of it.

    If you're not invited to a MAJOR party that every other person is invited to you most likely are going to feel sad or mad. DO NOT BEG FOR AN INVITATION.You will put yourself in a position that makes you seem like you are a loser with no life. Just accept it and move on. If people ask how you are dealing or feeling just say 'It's fine. If she doesn't want me to come, it's her loss.' And move on in your life. Do not suck up to the person who is having a party. You will put yourself in a position to be nice to that person forever unless you want to look like a loser looking for an invite. It's especially useless if the host is a person you really don't like.

    If you are good at a sport and you are confused on why you didn't make the team, talk to the coach. Then work on what your mistake was. You can always try out again next year.

    If you are having trouble in a certain subject talk to your teacher about having a small tutoring sesion so that the homework will be easier. Or seek outside of school tutors. It will be very helpful.

    To stay out of trouble, you have to get active by getting into some clubs and sports, the more you stay in sports and activities the more trouble you will stay out of it. you will love the sports and clubs that you are in and you won't have time to get in trouble. Believe in yourself and stick with it.

    Don't take yourself too seriously! If you fall down the stairs on the first day, just get back up and laugh about it. It takes courage to admit you're not perfect in public but people will notice your confidence and like you more.

    Don't commit social suicide! If you see someone breaking a rule but not putting anyone else in danger, don't run and tell a teacher. If they're smoking pot outside the school, don't tell unless asked. On the other hand, if they're beating someone up or starting fires in the bathroom, then you may want to consider saying something.

    Warnings:Some eighth graders and ninth graders will be nice, others not as... So, if you're asking for directions and have no choice but to ask an upperclassmen, pick out a friendly looking one, and try not to interrupt them while in the middle of a conversation.

    If your school lets you choose locker partners pick someone you know that you will be able to get along with the WHOLE year. It's not fun to be fighting with your locker buddy.

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