I'm still sore after this...?

Question

Ok, so first off, don't flame and hate on me for this question, it's a serious question.

Well hey, I'm g*y and 13, I don't know if that means anything, but anyways I just finally lost my virginity(Yaaayyyy!!) about 2 days ago. Well, the guy i was with was a little older, so well he was pretty big. And well still after 2 days I'm still really sore. Like really bad. There's no bleeding or anything, but it just really hurts, whether I'm sitting or standing. How long should this last? I know it's normal, but should it hurt this bad?

Please help.

Answer 1

of course you are sore, you are getting busy before your body has fully developed, I don't know where you are but in the UK its illegal before you are 16 for a very good reason

Answer 2

It's karma for having s*x at 13. At least wait until you're fully grown!

Answer 3

The only way I can help you is to suggest ways to reduce the pain.  First you need to go to the drugstore, tell them your mom sent you there to get a tube of hemorrhoid ointment.  Start applying that to the outside and the inside of your r****m, about three times a day.  Also fill a bathtub with about 4 inches deep with lukewarm water and simply sit in there for about 20 minutes or so while trying to relax your hole and r****m.  Now start taking Tylenol, 2 every 4 hours or, if you are not allergic to aspirin you can take two of those every 4 hours.  

If you can't get the hemorrhoid ointment you can substitute hemorrhoid suppositories instead.  Just apply a thing layer of vaseline or KY Jelly to the suppository and your hole, then insert it into your r****m.  You will need to hold it in there for about 10 to 15 minutes.  By then it will probably be melted and you won't have to worry about it.  Let me know how this works out for you.  My email address is in my profile.

Answer 4

OMFG,13?,god,i got my first d**k a few months ago,and you already had s*x? jesus crhist it really is the end of the world...anyway,dont tell me,he was kinda hardcore with you?,it depends on how big it was,i mean,usually the normal sized leaves you sore,because they dont reach the curve or they reach it but they stuck before it and pins your colon with it,that's why you are sore (thou a large curved d**k is not the best option either)...be cool,it will ease by the end of the week or starts of the next week,i mean,believe me,i have had a bad sexual encounter,with a guy that had it kinda fatty and he made me hardcore s*x,for my second time....anyways,i wasnt able to go to the restroom without feeling very bad and when i sit i was very sore,hahaha,for like a week and a half...be happy with it at least

Answer 5

Wow your only 13...well some pain is normal but not for two days, at least not alot. Well either he was really big and you guys had s*x for a long time, or your just over reacting....some people do when they loose their V word. Go to the doctor, and try to explain that too him..HAHAHA

Answer 6

gawd why are 13 year olds having s*x?!?

Answer 7

Ok, first of all, honey you shouldn't be having s*x at your age! Be it male or female there is no reason on earth for a 13 year old to be having any sexual relations!  Second of all, Of course your gonna be sore, specially since you are not fully developed, yes even in that area you are not fully developed!  Did you know that you could get serious damage and diseases if you were to tear (im sure you did).  If you are serious in your decision to have s*x you need to seriously do it safer!  You can seriously harm yourself!  You need to do some research on what can happen specially at your age, If your gonna do it at least be smart enough to read up on it and find out the safest way for you to do it.

Answer 8

finally?....lol your only 13 haha n i duno sorry im a girl