I'm stressing out...Should I be?

Question

Alright my ex and I broke up, due to him lying to me all the time. He was in prison before we met and he lied to me about why, and it was a big deal, he also became emotionally abusive, well we still live together, until our lease runs out. Well, last night he was drinking and decided he wanted food at midnight, 12 hours later and he's still last night. Ever since we broke up he's been doing drugs (coke, mushrooms and pot) I have a horrible gut feeling that he got arrested last night. Should I be worried? He's supposed to be at work in a few hours, do I call and tell them somethings up? Should I just ignore it all? We're still friends and I don't want something bad to happen to him. But, is it my place to worry about him? If not how do I get my mind off of this???

Answer 1

im sorry that you broke up  but he is not the type of guy you should want to be friends with he can only hurt you so forget about what happened and you hang out with your girl friends and maybe even stay there if you can because he is not a good guy and you need to get him off of your mind

hope i helped  

Answer 2

Move home to your parents and tell them :

"You were right,I was wrong,what I did was so stupid,will you forgive me and let me move home?I WILL obey the house rules".

Then get some education(2 yr degree) and get on your own.

Thank GOD you aren't pregnant by this bum.Then no more s*x or shacking until you meet a decent guy with NO criminal record, a job a place of his own and isn't asking for s*x until after marriage.You won't find a man like this  at a party, or a bar or night club or strip joint.

Try church,you'll find a lot better calss of people.The United Pentecostal churches are good.

One last thing,

where the "no criminal record" is concerned, I believe everyone deserves a second chance(some don't) but s*x, and shacking is NOT the way to give them a chance, the way to give them a chance is to sit back and watch their life for a year.

If they have been out of prison a week and get a job in a month, then a place of their own and are responsible for their own transportation and keep it all up over ayear and do not get into any more trouble, then chances arethey have learned something.If not then you aren't missing out on something that could be wonderful, because it sin't wonderful in that case.

Answer 3

i think you should just stress at the fact that you got with the wrong guy

Answer 4

I'm worried about you, I'm  a mother and Nana and can't help wondering how you are doing.

It's great that you want to be friends, but friends don't lie to you, or do drugs in a residence that you share.

Let him be, if he did get arrested and you do your checking in on him they might suspect that you do them too. That is the reason I suggest this to you, please consider your safety and future first.If he doesn't want help right now, you can't do a thing, except pray for him.

But again, I am only thinking of you and your situation please take care.

Answer 5

Smoke a big bowl to chill out.

Ask your ex. He probably has some.