I've been married 17 years and our oldest is 16. The friction between my son and my husband is getting worse as time goes on. My husband has always been the best father anyone could hope for their children - active, involved, loving, caring...but in the past year or two things have changed significantly between them. We've always presented a "united front" to our children backing each other's play and then if, for example, he doesn't agree with something I've said or done, he tells me about it later and we discuss it away from the children. I know teenagers swing from being very logical thinking young adults to very emotional children and that can be very frustrating, but my husband seems to have lost all patience with our son. I feel stuck between the two of them. I'm obligated to support my husband so we can present that united front, but when he's saying or doing something I disagree with, I feel like I should stop it - but that will undermine him in front of our son.
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