I'm such an idiot....?

Question

this weekend i was at karate and i was at a different school than normal. and thats where i met my ex boy friend (Nate). any way all the instructors knew about us and they kept asking about him and me and the whole time i just felt like such an idiot for ever going out with him. I mean I went out with him because I figured cause we were both black belts it would be cool. But he sucks and I'm a perfectionist and I didnt find that out until we were training together. But the whole weekend people kept saying how annoying, stupid, and untalented he is and basically I just felt like a total idiot for dating him and I'm just really depressed. I know I sound like every other teenager on here but I just feel so stupid and don't know what to do. Basically I just feel horrible and I didnt know how to explain it.

Answer 1

the best thing to do is keep yourself busy but his he worth feeling like an idiot over  

Answer 2

Hi there  

Dont worry you made a mistake and i'm sure you will make many more in life. The only advice i can give is take it on the chin and dont be too harsh on yourself. Take comfort in the fact that by this time next week everyone will have forgotten about it and moved onto the next bit of jucy gossip!

We all worry too much about what others think but in reality people have far too much on their minds that they soon forget.

Both me and my wife are blackbelts so it can work and yes it can be rather cool at times. lol

She always wins though ;-)

Best wishes

idai

Answer 3

its ok.. eveyone makes fun of one of my ex's.

sometimes Y/A is the only way to express haha :p

but really just think about what you learned from the realtionship, and what kind of person you are now.  Just laugh about it.  I feel like an idot too but i can laugh about it now :)

Answer 4

UPDATE: Okay, please relax. Everyone on the planet has dated someone that they later thought: "What was I thinking??!!!" Everyone has a horror story. So welcome to the human race. You're fortunate to learn about this early in life. Some people are having these experiences in their 40s! Anyway, say this to yourself: "It's normal to make a mistake. That is human and necessary. I got out of it, I'm okay, I'm fine, and it's over."

You're overthinking everyone else's opinion of you; they have already moved on to other topics.

And you express yourself just fine.

Answer 5

You try to find out what the truth is. Is your bf is not talented or good boy OR it is something your circle trying to make fool of you. Do not think yourself a idiot or get depressed. With sound mind only you shall be able to judge properly.

You have just written that you want to forget him then its OK; what's the problem? Tell him clearly that you are not interested in him and are looking to some one other.

Answer 6

If you didn't know, its not your fault. Don't feel like an idiot. We all go out with stupid people, and we all get over it, yourself included.