I'm super shy?...help!?

Question

theres this guy that i like in my class and i talked to him on myspace so it would kinda break the ice and so he would talk to me cause im really shy and i have trouble starting conversations with people i like or whatever but he didnt he just stared at me and when he saw me walking today at lunch he was looking at me but when i looked up he looked away and smiled. i think he likes me but i dont know how to approach him without bieng wierd or going into supershy mode..help?

Answer 1

Just make a fool of yourself! He'll like you even more if you just try and talk to him! The more coy you are the more of a challenge it will be for him! He'll love it.

Answer 2

next time you see him in the hall act as if you want too pass him then when you are next to him just say hi, if he is walking in the same direction ask him how he is doing...easy and painless he wil obviously ask how you have been and then just reply with something like, whats been keeping you busy or when is your next test?  

Answer 3

Just play it cool, be aloof. Take some deep breaths before you go up to him because it'll make you more relaxed. Make small talk, ask him about his day, what he did the night before, what other classes he's taking, etc. Just take it from there. I hope that helps.

Answer 4

Ok, is there a reason why you need to be soo scared in front of this guy? I'm assuming your young and you've got nothing to lose! If you do approach him and get all "shy", that's ok, he might love shy women =) And if he doesn't and he decides right there that your a SHY FREAK..even before knowing the real you, then s***w him! He's probobly not worth your time anyway!

Did you ever think that maybe he can't approach you? Maybe he's even more shy than you are. If he looks at you and changes eye contact (and starts laughing) when he knows that your looking at him, them most likely that means one of two things..he TOTALLY likes you OR He's making fun of you. I say, let's be positive here and hope that it's the first one...he likes you ^_^

You only live life once, and if you let your shyness get in your way of expressing the real you, then your definatly wasting your life! Youve got NOTHING to lose!

Answer 5

just approach him and ask him how he is doing, you dont have to let him know that you like him right away, just try starting a conersation, like what he did over the weekend and hopefully the conversation will continue and you will find stuff you both like to talk about

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Answer 6

Honestly, I use to be the same why. I had never asked a girl out, but one day I just told myself I was gonna do it. The worst thing that can happen is he says no. Once you get over this fear of rejection the world is a much friendlier place.

Answer 7

i guess the best way to talk to a guy that likes you is to think of him as a friend and just RELAX!

i know i ran away from a guy who liked me so don't do that just be cool and think of him  as a person not a cute guy good luck

Answer 8

If you 2 have one of the same friends, go up with them and they can sort of give the conversation a push and then you can kind of jump in and start talking.  

Answer 9

He's shy too.  Discuss it via email.  Call on the phone.  It'll get easier as time goes on and you get to know one another.

Answer 10

I'm shy too but I learned to lighten up a bit. Look up some good clean jokes to tell him. Or say hey whats up? Don't be shy cause you may miss out on something awesome.

Answer 11

if he looks at you, smile and look shy so he knows you like him too. if you sit next to or near him in any classes try asking him a question in the lesson and start from there, if you bump into him or pass him by say hi, and get ur friends to get in a chat with him and just join in. :D

Answer 12

since he likes you, even if you do go into supershy mode, he probably won't mind. So I say, just do it, girl! You like him, he likes you! So...it might be a start to a beautiful relationship...so just go up to him, tell him your feelings, and I bet he'll say the same. You go, girl! :)

Answer 13

Hmm, maybe just start by saying hi when you pass him, because you cant really mess that up, can you?

You just have to build confidence. Go over the scene in your head over and over again, so you'll feel more prepared, until then just start saying hi, and smiling.

Answer 14

It does sound like he likes you. If I were you I would talk to him more, just causal talking. like about your weekend/or what your gonna do, jobs, school, and so on. Make sure your body language is shows you like him, so flirt a lil.

After your use to talking to him ask him to hang out, by then you should know what he likes to do. so ask him do something he likes. for example, i like this guy and i knew he liked to golf. I had never been golfing so i asked him if he would like to show me how to play.

If he likes you i wouldn't be surprised if he asks you out before you get to ask him. But if he is as shy as you this should give him a little clue.

That's how i would do it if I didn't want to be too forward about it.

Answer 15

I used to be really shy too...it's hard when you're young and not very confident, especially for a guy.

You should keep up the email and simply smile and maybe a little friendly wave. Next time say, "Hi".  Just keep up the slow steady aproach and before long you'll gain his trust and he may actually say

"Hi" back. Who knows what kind of prior experience whe's had, maybe he's been hurt or never had a girlfriend so do take it slow and make it fun. People don't want something heavy or weird so don't make large gestures but hey if you find out what kind of cookies he likes that is a pretty good start....may sound corney but it proves that you think enough of him to do something nice for him.

Do you have any classes together?  If so ask him a question about  the teacher or a problem or assignment, just to break the ice.

Don't give up though, and do SMILE!!!!!  If you don't like you're smile talk to your dentest and get that fixed. You can't go around being this shy your whole life so put it out there in your own sweet way and be willing to share a few tidbits of information so he'll be able to ask you questions.  Plus guys like to help so if you have any problems you should ask him what he thinks if you get the chance once he opens up.

Best Wishes and be Brave, I bet things will turn your direction;)))

Answer 16

have one of your friends do it for you

not ask him out but have them tell him that you like him

Answer 17

Shy girls are really unattractive, so seriously try to snap out of that, most boy do not like shy girls that have no personality!

Answer 18

make fun of him, that will teach him for ignoring you, HOW DARE HE! Really just be your self wave or say hi.