I'm the only 1 with a chest in my class....?

Question

i'm 13 and lot of the girls in my have only just turned 12.

lots of the girls talk about me because i actually have a chest and they dnt.

And its kind of embarassing wen we change in the locker room coz i'm the only 1 wearing a bra.

anyway...

i was talking 2 my friend on msn and he sed sumin and

i sed sumin bout the girls not reali liking me.

he sed they were just jealous. and then he sed all of the boys like me tho.

thts great nd everything, but i also want friends tht r girls.

he joked around and sed i sud start wearing baggy shirts.

i was thinking about it but i dnt reali wanna.

i dnt know wot 2 do.i want sum of them 2 b my friends.

sum sort of r my friends but only sorta.

wot sud i do 2 make them like me????

BTW.i lived most of my life(tht i can remeber) in england.

then we moved 2 vienna(where i live right now) for 2 years.

but then my dad got a job offer in the usa so we moved there for 7 months, but then we moved back here.....

Answer 1

They are jealous. You "blossomed" early.

Even though I was 9 when I first got my period, I didn't develop b*****s til I was about 13. I was a small B cup for the longest time. It wasn't til a few years ago I "filled out" abit more to a full B, small C cup.

I was abit jealous of a few girls who developed quicker than I did. Yet, that was my own childish insecurity that I had to get over.

I think those girls, who are 12, are going through an identity-childish stage where they are not mature enough yet of what is going on with bodies.

You are automatically "different" to them, but don't let that stop you from trying to make friends.

Still approach them, talk to them and wing out the bad (gossip) girls from the good (nice) ones.

The only reason why they treat you like that is because they are insecure of their own selves.  Eventually they will get over it once they began to grow, in all aspects, themselves.  

Especially since the guys like you, that is "competition" for the 12 year olds. Guys are hormonal and lets face it, bodies memorize them in a tranz. So of course they will like you as you are developing. Not just that, but you might have a different personality that they like. Not just physical aspect and the other girls might be judgmental about that.

But don't let those guys disrespect you. You becareful as this is the time where you too are growing and learning. Guys, not just girls, are complicated along with relationships etc.

I went through the same thing as far as me having hips/butt. I was labled "not so nice" words because I got along better with guys than girls (gossipy/catty etc).

Have you thought about joining a club? Sport?

Answer 2

i started my period at 9 years old and i had size b in 5th grade and c in 6th. size d by the timei got to 9th grade. a lot of people said things about my b***s. It was very hurtful. I always felt ashamed that i had b***s. But now im 21 and i realized all the girls who were making fun of me got boob jobs lol. so they were jealious that i didnt have to spend a dime on mine. Buttt my b***s are gone now. had babies and they are a size c again. dont mind those people. if they had a choice they would want big b***s too so their moms didnt have to spend so much money on toilet paper. lol good luck

Answer 3

They re just jealous that you have a chest and they doesn't. Don't pay attention to them. When they grow older they would be really embrassed that their chest is so small. And they will stufff tissues and stuff.

Answer 4

lol they probably dont hate you because you have b***s dont worry hun and next year they will have b***s too if not sooner so dont worry!! Just be friendly

Answer 5

Alot of the girls sound intimidated by you. They're just a bit immature since they haven't hit puberty yet, and they lack knowledge of it. Since you're 13 and they're 12 why not try befriending some of the girls in an older grade? And no offense but those silly little boys only like you because of your new found melons, so be very careful. Best of luck to you. Also didn't you have any close friends before you moved from Vienna to America?

Answer 6

Jesouly is a horrible  thing isn't.Don't pay any attention to the girls.Your not at school to take nasty comments from flat-chested girls,you are there to learn and make friends.And don't think they're mean to you for no reason.They probably want to be you when they tease you(or maybe just your chest).One girl is only teased when her chest is bigger or smaller than everyone else's.And don't change your look because of those b***hs.Wear what you want and just ingore them.They'll get tired of it after no reaction from you.