I'm tired...?

Question

Helllo. Okay, so basically I'm an outcast at school. People make fun of me, make rumors and that jazz. I'm tired of it. I want to be someone. I want to be someone who people actually recognize and remember. I live in the Boston (MA) area and I was wondering if there's any auditions for commercials & so on. I'm 17 and going to be 18 in the summer!!

Oh and also, how can you get over a guy?

Thank you so much.!

Answer 1

Go for it on the auditions & if you like acting do community or school theater. Ignore the ppl who spread rumors and laugh as you leave them in the dust. The guy thing...just remember all the bad things about him (I know there are some) and realize you'll do better. Definitely plan on college even if you have to start at a community college.  

Try this website: http://www.myactingagent.com/

Answer 2

You're so close to being out of high school, and all that superficial making fun and rumor c**p will be over soon.  When you get into the real world, you'll realize that everyone who can't keep comments to themselves are douches and you are superior to them in so many ways.

It doesn't matter how people remember you out of high school. What matters is what you choose to do with your life now, and what you choose to do with it right out of high school and beyond.

You can't put your own value on how other people percieve you, because that's not something you can control. You can't stop anyone from thinking thoughts about you, but you CAN control your own thoughts and your own reactions and your own percieved value of yourself.

Hope that helps, best of luck.

Answer 3

i can give you help on how to get over a guy but the commercial part, sorry i live in canada!

first thing you need to do is get a makeover, change your hair, go tanning, get a mani pedi. wtv that will make you feel s**y. then you need to occupy yourself. when i was trying to get over my ex last year, i asked my manager to give me more hours at work , i did lots of shopping, i went out dancing , i was always with friends, and that days were i had nothing to do and i was bored at home alone were the days i cried and thought about him and TRIED CALLING HIM ! (which is a big big big NO-NO)..

good luck and remember there are plenty of fish in the sea:O)

he was just a crab!

Answer 4

Think about this, all of those douchebags that make fun of you now will be washing dishes and cleaning bathrooms when they grow up, whereas you won't likely fall into the same cultural traps as they do, and you'll likely be way better off.

Answer 5

go 2 sleep    there jelouse

Answer 6

I am tired 2

Answer 7

I probably don't understand it as much as you do figuring I won't be in the high school till nexx year, but your deff. not a nobody. Everybody is a somebody. Even a silly girl like me. I live in Boston, MA too. Every school has their own set of mean people.

No matter how hard it is, keep trying to be better everyday. Beat yourself up. Not literally, I mean in a different way. Today, be better than yesterday. Tomorrow, by better than today. Who freakin cares about those losers who bug you. They think that have lives but they don't. Niether do you and and I. We are still learning about life. Those girls probably stopped years ago.

I would say start talking to your parents about it but maybe that won't be the best choice. Depends. Some parents understand, others just don't which is frusterating, I know. But you, just keep being yourself. I was like bullied all the time in my old school. But now, I know that I'm innocent. I have done nothing wrong. Those girls could go to h**l in the end.

To get over a guy, remember he's not the only hawtie out there. It may seem like a once in a life time chance but its not. And you don't gotta be on TV to be a somebody. But if you really wanna search on yahoo on that kinda thing.

Good luck :D

Answer 8

just draw positive attention to yourself and don't care what others think...

Answer 9

It sucks that they are such little a******s to you.  The good news is, in 2 years you will never see them again.  Start learning to love yourself and ignore those demonic, souless fuctkards who are surely doomed to rot in the vile, hottest pits of h**l.

Answer 10

do you know that kids that face the most adversity and learn how to deal w/ it effectively are the ones that succeed in life?  it is those who have it too easy that face the world out of school and do not know how to face or challenge the world themselves...   life is like that and good luck...

Answer 11

Maybe just change school? But then again, your almost finished it. I think when you study a bit further, after 18, you could make more friends and boost up your confidence and be the coolest guy!

Answer 12

I was an outcast in junior high and high school. once it gets started it snowballs and once everyone is afraid to associate with you because they don't want their popularity to be compromised out of fear. The best way for you to handle the problem is to be kind in return for insults or rejection. Turn to God. He answers prayer. Focus on what you like to do and develop your talents. Accept the fact of your situation but also don't give up hope in making some friends. Say thank you god for giving me favor with others. Stay involved and don't retreat. Get involved in after school activities. If people reject you that is their curse not yours. Pray for them and go to church where you will be loved and respected to counter all the negativity you have been facing. These people are shallow. How you get over the boy is with prayer and time.Keep your hopes up for the future. have positive thoughts about your future prospects. You will meet someone you like better when the time is right.Go to the library and Read the book you can if you think you can by Norman vincent peale.

Answer 13

thats high school, and that wont go away until you go to college and no one knows you. thats your best best, to be honest..