I'm too uncoordinated??

Question

I've had it... I'm 16 and this infuriating physical awkwardness (or perhaps mental) of unco-ordination is killing me. I must look so idiotic sometimes. And now of all times is the time for it to go. I am engaging in counselling for my mental 'disadvantages' and need you to help me get back on track with my posture, literally.

My first annoyance is that I am so unco, slow and inactive to react to things especially in front of a certain someone. It has to stop. I don't know how to explain I just have a really low esteem of myself and feel that everything I do is abnormal.

Other times is my posture, how I walk etc. Like when I walk I feel that it looks awkward in front of people and swining my arms etc. I can't explain... basically it all revolves around my self-esteem which is sitting in negative figures, and dropping. There are times, such as when the certain person sees me, when the figures drop erratically into some hateful abyss that I feel so alienated in. Help!!

Answer 1

Stand straight and walk tall. If you can recognize your pitfalls it means you are really intelligent and thoughtful. When your mind cant see it, it can overcome it too. So, try changing what you feel is wrong about you instead of writing it out to people here. We can't change those things right? You change it!

You are just 16. Life doesn't remain like that always. Try searching " bollywood stars without make up" or " ..stars in their childhood" .. you'll know how things are brighter in future. :) Cheer up. Begin working on the change and let us know the new you. :)

Answer 2

It sounds like you just need a little self discipline, If you want to change some things in your life bad enough you will do it, it doesn't matter what other people think, it only matters what you think, take a look in the mirror and make a decision, then stick with it, you may even have to write yourself some notes and put them where you will see them just to remind yourself of the changes you want to make, You can do it, just smile and take that next step. Good Luck!!!