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I'm unsatisfied with my life and myself?

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I'm 15 years old & I know that I'm luckier than many people cause I have the basic needs and all. I want to be satisfied with my life, but I'm not. I can't stop myself from being jealous of other people's life. They have heaps of things that i want and that includes; intelligence, caring loving understanding parents and family, good looking, awesome friends and great body. I know they have problems but most of those are minor compared to mine. I sometimes, wonder why can't my life be like that? I hate the way I look and I hate my body and I hate that I'm not smart and know how to think. I know that what really matters is you personality, but you know the society -it's different now a days. majority , judge people on their appearances, and what not. I am not obese or fat, normal weight - just a tad bit towards the underweight side. I eat unhealthy but I can't help it , i have a high metabloism.

I pretty much don't have a social life anymore. I had to get a job otherwise I couldn't buy the things i wanted and have money just in case my dad left my mum so I could help support the family. I work my butt off in the weekends, getting paid minimum wage while my friends are out partying, socializing and doing what they want. - While I'm sitting at home strung-out from work on the computer, MSNing or bebo-ing people. I find myself pathetic - the only times i socialize are at work, school and on the internet (if you call that socializing). I don't really talk to much people only have a few close friends, but I don't talk to them much, as we've both are busy with our own lives. I feel like that my life has turned upside down... What do I do to get out of this mess (my life)? How do I stop thinking and feeling like this? I just even want to cry thinking this whole situation.

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  1. All you need is a little help from your parents. Family is for this purpose. You need someone to talk to and the best one to do to is your parents. So now go to your mom and talk to her abour how you feel and you will be feeling so better than this


  2. go to sleeeeeeeeep punk

  3. Hmm, tough question. I guess my best answer would be to take some time being a kid. I got married at 17 years old, and only 1 month after getting married I got pregnant with my son (now 2 years old)...so now that I'm 20 I often feel like I have no life. Don't get me wrong, I absolutely love my kids and husband (I have an 8 month old baby too now), but I look around and see all these 20 year olds having fun and not really having any major responsibility and I feel like maybe I rushed some things in my own life. My husband is very supportive and he encourages me to get out and shop or do whatever, but I can't feel truly free to do that because I worry about the kids and if they're ok. So anyway, my point is that you should try to be responsible, but at the same time don't throw away your youth. You are going to miss it. Work less and hang out with friends more. It is really awesome that you are willing to help your mom out if she needs it, but you are only 15. You are just entering the prime of your life. Don't make mistakes that will force you to grow up too soon. Every girl is ready to grow up at different ages, so just make sure that you know when you're ready, and not a day sooner.  

  4. your problem is not even a .0000001 on other poeple's problem

  5. this is called "growing up"!  you're starting to grow up at an earlier age then your friends(thats something to be proud of)

    don't worry, im the same way. i got a job just so i could socialize with people.

    you have to except that good looking people get handed everything in life and life is easier for them....but the best part about that is, when they get old and dried up they wont know what to do because they cant use their looks to get everything

    my best advise would be, cut down on the work hours, hang out with your friends, have fun, ignore what is going on between your parents, and live your own life....

    if your life ever gets too S****y you can do what im going to do.....move far, far away.....im moving to japan to get out of this shiiit hole, ive been saving up to get out....

    i wish you luck...now wish me luck     hahaha

  6. seriously girl you have no problems compared to mine, read this question of mine

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

    oh ok now i get you, um i really dont know, but i wish you all the best :)

    good luck!

    love flossy

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