I'm working with a child with down syndrome?

Question

Hi, i am working with a child with down syndrome for a couple of weeks during the summer. But theres a problem you see she never listens to me and she slaps me and it really hurts. Is there something i can do so she doesnt ignore me and stops hurting me?

Answer 1

Create a picture schedule or a visual representation of what you expect her to do.  Go to http://www.dotolearn.org/  http://www.augresources.com/PictureSched... for suggestions on creating a picture schedule.  Many times, children with disabilities, especially those with Down Syndrome and Autism, will demonstrate physical aggression because it is their way of communicating "I don't know what you want" or "I don't want to do this."  Here is a great website from the Riverbend Down Syndrome Support Group in Illinois http://www.altonweb.com/cs/downsyndrome/... .  Also, ask her parents how they or her teachers/therapists manage her behavior.  

Answer 2

You don't state what age she is, and in what way your working with her, are you a carer or teachers aide?

Either way always give her one command or instruction at a time, make sure what your asking her to do is simple, fun and achievable. Try to show her, how to do what your asking, which will help her to mimic/copy what your doing.

Most children with Down syndrome are great mimics, and love to help, but don't like to be made to do something they don't want too, but you can do a little trade, saying "if you do this we can do such & such" usually something they like to do.

As for hitting or slapping you, gently grab her hands and firmly say NO HITTING OR SLAPPING, then give her consequence for hitting/slapping such as two minutes of sitting quietly. You have to be persistent with this, she will quickly learn hitting is not allowed.

Answer 3

Most usually children with down syndrome are loving, she just needs to know that you love her and are there to care for her. I would be consistent in what you tell her. Like for example, if you hit me you will get a time out, if she hits then give her a time out. When changing a childs routine the child becomes angry, so just be patient and understanding but firm. I know it can be hard because you feel bad but it is best for the child. Consistancy works set a routine and follow it everyday that you are with her, set goals and consequences for inappropriate behavior, explain the rules and folow them. This should help. Please let me know how it goes! Good Luck!!

Answer 4

Treat her as normal as poss. Not easy, but bear with it. The rewards are worth the hassle.