I'm worried about a friend thats having s*x.?

Question

My friend is a guy and he's only 15. He's had a steady girlfriend for 7 months. i just recently found out that he's been having s*x with her since the third month. I'm just worried that something will go wrong if they keep this up. I've tried to talk to him, but when it comes up he gets all defensive and even denies it sometimes. I notice that it seems like he wants to talk about it, but he's an average guy that keeps his feeling to himself. Suggestions?

Answer 1

you sound like a good friend- the best thing you can do for someone in this situation is make sure they are using protection and know how to get it.  

Answer 2

All you can do is tell him how you feel and be done with it. Its his life and his business and if he makes mistakes he will have to deal with it.

Answer 3

let them. you need to get some yourself too.

Answer 4

That's right----------use the big condom, or the small one.

Answer 5

You sound like a good friend.

If they are having s*x, as long as they are being sensbile and using some sort of contraception its ok. 7 months is a long time for teenagers to be in a relationship and a lot are wanting to be sexually active. Jus make sure they're using protection and kno the risks.

He's a guy, so he's naturally going to shut up about his private life unless bragging about it lol. The best you can do is give him time, if he wants to talk about it he will. Remember he also has his girlf to talk to, and we tend to find it easier to talk to our partners...

Good luck hun :)

Answer 6

Ditto! Make sure he is using protection.  

Answer 7

The best way to be a friend and to keep a friend is to never interfere.Guide him,you can't make him not have s*x but you can guide him and advice him on safe s*x and the danger of having s*x under age.Once he realise that u r not interfering but only trying to help he will come around

Answer 8

Well really there isn't much you can do. People have to make their own choices and unfortunately that means they make their own mistakes. I've watched some real train wrecks and it sucks, but all you can really do is watch and pray they make it out ok. Guys hate unsolicited advice and when someone offers advice when they aren't seeking help they feel attacked. He is going to do what he wants to do regardless of what you say. The best you can do is let him know that you are his friend, that you support him in anything he does and if he ever wants to talk he can come to you. Then if he wants to talk he'll know the door is open.

Answer 9

Just let it be.. Let him handle his own things by himself. If something happens like her get pregnant then that's on them. You can't stop them from having s*x from one other.