I'm worried about my friend....

Question

Ok, she's in a relationship with, in my opinion, an Ok guy. In the beginning he was really cool, but just jealous like crazy. The last few days he has been up her *** about her visiting her cousin for a DAY.

He doesnt let her speak with other guys. And when she does, he gets mad at her.

And whenever she's on the phone with me, he gets mad.

She said that her dad was like this, and ended up beating her mom.

I'm worried that if it does escalade into him hitting her, that she wont get out of the relationship in time.

How do I tell her this?

Answer 1

I'm not totally sure how to your friend this. Just sit her down and tell her you're very worried. While I was reading this I knew she was in an abusive relationship. Right now he's not being physically abusive but he def. is mentally. Maybe you should tell her that. It's going to be alot harder on you and her if she's in love with him because she might not believe you and then it will be too late. So many woman don't get out in time when they are in a abusive relationship. You see the signs you have the power to stop it. Do it now before something bad happens, and in time it will if no one does anything