I'm young. But are older women considered better in bed?

Question

Guys? What's the difference? Older women, can you shed some light?

Answer 1

Practice makes perfect, and s******g the football team isn't the way to do it.

Answer 2

I've heard of that also. I think it's because older women are seen as more mature and experienced when it comes to s*x and young men find this appealing because older women don't go through all that preppy emotional drama that younger girls typical go through with their relationships. Older women are more mature than that, you see what I'm saying? As a result of this, a lot of young men find the thought of a relationship with an older woman more "forbidden", desirable and s**y.

If you look at most of the age-gap relationships in the mainstream media, most of them are older men with younger women, but vice versa is less common so when it's actually seen, the young male is seen as a "Lucky stud" lol.

But hey, in the end it all comes down to individual performance. You're only as good as the effort you put into it. I'm sure there are plenty of young ladies out there who are kinky in bed.

Answer 3

Really it depends upon person to person, likes and dislikes of each individual. As i also like womens older than me.

Answer 4

A female Earthling is a good female Earthling.

Answer 5

It is commonly held that the middle aged married lady is better in that regard: for their husbands, of course.

Answer 6

I've heard that a lot of young men have a "Mrs. Robinson" at some point in their lives and that this is a great experience for them.  It's quite possible that they're remember it as being even better that it really was partially because they were young and partially because it was forbidden.  I suppose it depends on what you want from the experience.  Yes older women tend to be less inhibited and yet men still go through that second childhood where they chase around younger women.  

As long as everyone's open and honest you can feel safe exploring new things without embarrassment or shame and I feel that's the key to great s*x at any age.

Answer 7

I'm 43 and my s*x life is much better than when I was younger.  I'm less inhibited, and at the same time, know what I like and don't like, and am not afraid to say so.  I'm not afraid to ask for what I want and to take the initiative.  Being single and not really interested in remarrying, I'm not all tangled up in the emotional mess that younger women tend to feel.  I love the man I'm involved with, but not clingy and demanding like I was when I was young.  I've had a lot of younger men pursue me, saying they want an experienced woman, but am not interested in them; I prefer older men for the same reason--- experience.  My 56 yr old lover knows things that some 25 year old could never dream of!

Answer 8

That's how you look at it . . .young ones have those smooth beautiful bodies that are captivating and entrancing but they usually aren't really into s*x all that much til around 30 or so, and this varies of coarse as everyone's different, but usually. By the time they hit 40 or so they have the who cares attitude, "I'm gettin MINE" and add that to experience and KaBOOM!!!!

oh yeah, I can handle a little wrinkle here, and a little flab there for the KaBOOM!!!! any day of the week and twice on Sundays!

Answer 9

90% of s*x is being there.  Don't worry about performance.  Choosing the right guy is the biggest act you need to do.

Answer 10

ofcourse!

Answer 11

There are a variety of sources for this...

For one, experience. You can't put a price on it. Older women will know more of what they want and how you can give it to them. They also won't be as shy to let you know that, which makes s*x better for them, which in turn, typically makes the s*x overall better as the guy is more turned on.

Also, women supposedly reach their sexual peak in about their 30's. So they are a bit friskier then. Combine that with the experience, and you have a logical explanation as to why older women are considered better in bed...

Answer 12

yes.  older women are better (by older, I mean between 35 and 42 or so.  after that being sexually attractive to men is over for 99% of women).

Younger women are notoriously lazy and selfish in bed, in my experience.

Answer 13

Ill answer that for you, and I am a 53yr young woman... Its not that we are any better... many look at it as we have more experience.. and that may or may not be true... Many guys dont want to deal with the "younger women"  as they dont want to listen to all the BS... where as an "Older" woman has more lifes experience in many aspects... and tend to listen more and not have so many hang ups etc...  and to me , it doesnt matter how old or how young a person is, if you truely love someone and are committed... you do whatever it takes to make each other happy....its a learning process.. some are better at it then others... but from what I can see.... most younger men will normally settle down with someone  around their own age eventually...

Answer 14

I don't consider myself older, yet, I am 32 and I knew I was good in bed at 20, but now, I don't even worry about it. Men may think older women are better because they are more comfortable and show fewer inhibitions. Experience and time will enlighten you.

Answer 15

Some women become much less inhibited with age, but some learn nothing. It's the individual, not the age.