I've accused my online friend of being fake.?

Question

There was just too much evidence going towards her not being who she said she was

(1. I asked for a pic of her holding up my name on a sign and it was photo-shopped

2. She says she's a model but there are no real pics of her from any model place on her pics

3. Her phone apparently was broken when I wanted to call her

4. She stopped talking to me like forever, and when I send HER a message accusing her her 'FRIEND' suddenly pms me almost instantly

5. A while later SHE sends me a message giving me a guilt trip, and now I feel guilty about it even though I know I've trusted my gut instincts and accused her with a lot of evidence to back it up. She says I'm just 'like other guys' now. Oh and she also said "It doesn't matter anyway, I have a boyfriend now" and I believe that's an attempt to make me jealous (unfortunately, it almost is working considering how much I've talked to her in the past) and make me apologize and continue talking to her without any evidence whatsoever.

She says it's because I didn't give her my phone number she couldn't call me. But everything just points to something suspicious, and I couldn't deal with that so I told her. Her friend apparently was in an accident, and she was offline because of it, now if I am wrong about all this I guess it'd make me seem like the biggest jerk, I just refuse to get close to someone who I don't know online if I don't have ANY evidence that they're real.

Answer 1

this sounds like shes tryin too hard to make u think shes someone she isnt. it sounds like she likes attention, too. i bet she is good under all of the lying.  if u try to be n ice and get the truth and she gets all mad. dont be her friend. its not worth it. shes a liar.  Welcome!!!

Answer 2

you feel in love with an e friend lol

Answer 3

Why would she accomodate you so much, while others probably accept her for face-value?

I'm just wondering... You have to think about what you have done to gain her interest so much, and if there is nothing, you are only kidding yourself.  

Answer 4

That's a lot of worrying over the internet..

Maybe you should concentrate more on real life.

Not to say it's bad to have internet friends,

I have internet friends too, but one thing I've always lived by is that real life comes first.

Answer 5

It depends on what you want to do. If you had fun talking to this girl and stuff, then yeah, you can try and apologize to stay friends. Online friends can be really fun, I know personally. If you don't think it's worth it, then you can just move on. The Internet is a big place; there are a lot more cool people than just her.

I hope I helped. :)

Answer 6

I think she's fake.

Either that or someone is toying around with you and you know the person.

Girls do that.(some)

I guess its just sometimes a group of friends thinks its funny.

But just ignore it because they could be getting great laughs.

h**l, I did that.

Answer 7

you should never have accused her of being a fake friend its all circumstantial evidence.

Answer 8

You are taking a risk by making 'friends' online.  The vast majority of the people who use chat rooms, or other means of online communication are not actually the real people to whom you may have been conversing with.  Most people will make up names, use other pictures of a male or female, rather than their own picture because they do not like the way they look.  

Also, most of these virtual 'friends' make up stuff about their education, their jobs, etc.  You can usually spot a fake if you stay online enough to see that their conversation does not remain consistent.  A person who does not fake themselves online, are open, honest, use their real photo(s) of themselves, and their conversation remains consistent, and that includes their style of writing.

So, you are most likely are dealing with a 'girl' who is simply a facade of her true self.  Watch out for who you converse with online.  Who knows, you could be talking to an old man, or a teenager.  So watch out.

Answer 9

Sounds fake just leave her alone and find other friends!

I had almost the same problem this girl kept saying she was pregnant then would say a week later she had miscarried and now she is supposed to be pregnant again but miscarried two weeks ago and she is 4 weeks pregnant now so she is a fake and a liar!  

Answer 10

what are you asking:?

Answer 11

Your best chance is to find her pic online somewhere else.

Check these sites

www.fakersbusted.com

(a site with commonly used fake pictures)

www.sugarloot.com

(A site people tend to think other people dont know about where people post pictures of themselves for contests, a lot of fakers resort to this site)

Hope I helped, maybe you should just not get involved with her. Or ask her to make a video.  

Answer 12

The whole thing is weird.. i think "SHE" may not even be a she but someone winding you up. like her phone being broken when you wanted to hear her voice.

why she cant give you a pic with her holding your name...

I would forget her it seems sus to me

Answer 13

This happened one time when I was talking to this boy who was posing as Yella Boy Trent, a rapper from Camp 22 (also known as Ca$h Camp).  

Answer 14

Congratulations... You just fell for one of the oldest tricks on the net

Now the only problem that you would have to ask yourself is if the person you were getting all mushy for was another guy...

Answer 15

and your question is.......?

Answer 16

No, if she can't provide any evidence, they're fake until you have cold hard proof. Don't feel guilty. ATALL.

mine please

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?...

Answer 17

Don't trust people online.  

Answer 18

This is very easy! Go with your instinct.  If your requests of her or legit and not too much and your not asking anything of her that could be dangerous to her, and she is refusing than most definitely things aren't what they seem.  I would just tell her that you are at a place with her that you feel these things you are asking are justified and that if she isn't in the same place as you, then let her know you want to be friends and that is it.  Then you have to stick to whatever you tell her.

Answer 19

Yeah, uhm, guess it's fishy, but that's a story not a question.....

Answer 20

Get out and meet someone face to face.  Online relationships are LAME!

Answer 21

fake, definitely.

maybe a boy for all you know.

Answer 22

She's definitely real, and you messed up BIG TIME. It's over now, man. Time to move on.

Answer 23

deffinately fake.

i dont recomend online relationships ):

could be some 50 year old smelly man who sits in his parents basment trying to chat you up all day.

(:

Answer 24

I think that from the information you are giving me, your friend is a 12 year old or under child that know not to talk to strangers because all this stuff is childish, meaning the way she answered all these incidents (friends accident, broken phone ect...)

Answer 25

i'd say that she is fake and that you can't trust her.  Especially if she's that "scene" look.  Maybe you shouldn't talk to her anymore, because that would make you look pathetic if you fell for someone that isn't even real.

Answer 26

she didnt want you to call her...she didnt want to talk to you...she says she has a bf...hmmm.that sounds too suspicious.  and the photoshopping...wow..

maybe she is pulling your leg..maybe she was doing it for fun hoping you didnt find out. maybe she had a boyfriend all along. dont fall into her guilt trips. dont feel guilty.

if she was a friend she wouldnt have to lie to you.

online or offline.

a lie is just a huge story wrapped around excuses...

im sorry about that though. dont deal with it. move on.  

Answer 27

Online friends, fake?  Well, D-UH. There's no such thing as an online "friend", it's a faceless, nameless acquaintance that you use in lieu of real relationships.  Sometimes these people can offer sage advice or a kind word when you need one, but they're ghosts.  What are you afraid of, that you don't want to make friends IRL and are wasting time and energy on someone who is obviously just toying with you? You say you have real friends, but this is the one you have your knickers in a twist over?  Block her IM and email addresses and move on.

Answer 28

Tell her you're sorry and ask if you can still be friends.

I'm sorry for you, good luck.

Answer 29

yea id advise you not to get too close to someone whos most likely a 41 year old man who just wants to rape u. but go ahead if u want jsut watch out

Answer 30

*YAWNS*, I'm sorry what, how can you accuse people of being fake dip-****.

Answer 31

lmaorontftntpm

(rolling on the floor trying not to pee myself)

Internet friends being fake?

no say it isn't so.

Let me guesss he ended up being a 55 yr old fat man who wanted to have s*x with you.