I've been feeling lost and foggy mentally?

Question

for the past two days. I'm hurt that i lost my mom but I am happy because she is free from the suffering she was in.

Does this feeling fade???? i feel restless and like I'm going crazy!

Answer 1

I'm sorry for your loss.  You're still in the early stage of grief, so don't be too hard on yourself--it's a lot to deal with.

See a grief counselor or get in a grief group, which can help you through this painful process.  It's important, because as you process the grief, old wounds can open up and it's helpful to have another person there to walk with you as you work it all out.

Answer 2

My condolences.  Sorry about your mom.  I'll pray for you.  You'll start to get back to normal but it will take some time.  

Answer 3

I'm so sorry for your loss, my friend...........I know how terribly difficult it is to lose a parent............Yes, you should feel good that she is no longer in any pain..............

It is completely normal to have a 'strange' sense of time and living your everyday life..............it is the 'shock' that you are experiencing which does fade away --- to uncover the fact that she is really gone......when you reach that point in grief, you will feel a whole gambit of emotions, which are normal, too.........

May God grant you the peace and comfort that can only come from Him................Feel free to email me, if you wish --- I am willing to 'listen' and help in any way that I possibly can..............

God Bless................

Answer 4

Yeah, it fades. As for the restlessness, try putting some energy into something new- especially something that helps others. I say this because there really is a sense of "reward" when you do something for someone (or animals) with no expectation of getting something back. The reward is putting even a tiny bit back into that hole you feel right now. Time will help, just keep your chin up.

Answer 5

you just suffer a lost and no one will blame you for feeling like that. Its been two days give it sometime and you will see your way . Just hang out with good friends and see a funny movie.

Answer 6

I am sorry for your loss of your mother. Yes, it does get better sweetie, but it takes some time. I miss my father so much still today and he has been gone now for 6 years. For a long while I had this same feeling you are experiencing and it was really hard to concentrate on anything else but missing him and my broken heart.

You are not going crazy, you are going through different stages of grief and we all have to walk them out no matter how much they hurt. I too was so thankful that my dads pain and suffering ended I really was. But it did not take away from the pain and suffering I went through when I had to say goodbye. You will be find. Maybe not today or tomorrow but one day you will realize that you feel just a bit better and can think of her and smile, knowing that even though you can not be with her anymore here on this earth, you will always be with her in your heart! Hang in there.......it takes time. Thanks for posting this question, you made me think of my daddy and remember all the love that we shared. Best wishes! (HUG)

Answer 7

You need that time to mourn her loss.  Go ahead and grieve and yes she is in a better place without physical suffering and probably greeted by those whom she loves.   She is in a place of rest.   She would love to feel missed I am sure but I'm sure she would also want for you to go on with your life and make her proud once you have mourned for her.  

Answer 8

yes, it will fade and finally go away and become only a memory

I lost my Mom last year

it was a sad time and a good year because of the memories she created

now it is still painful and I don't like to think that she is not here with us

but she is not

death is cruel as cruel as can be

death is the last enemy to be destroyed and it will be

Jesus said so!!!!!

Settle down God is with you at that time more than anytime

He will be with you through 7 troubles

and will hold you up with his right hand

God hates this more than you do, that is why he will destroy it forever!!!!

love and prayers for you and yours at this time of need

Remember God will finish this!!!!!!!!!!

:)

jlu