I've been put in charge of the bachelorette party out of the blue! HELP!?

Question

OK. I offered to help another friend plan the bachelorette party for our mutual friend. I offered ideas and she basically called me yesterday and said I should just be in charge.

OK. So, it's apparent they want a stripper ($300 for five songs!!) I'm pissed about that entirely. I feel it's a complete waste of money! Anyways, what are the must-haves besides the stripper? Hotel (for the stripper to perform at), Limo, Food etc.

Anyone who has been to a bachelorette party recently please share your ideas. These are hard-drinkin partyers btw.

Thanks!

Answer 1

Maybe you guys should have it at someone house instead-may save some money. The last one I went to she asked all the close friends to each bring a type of alcohol to share-which helped out a lot! We didnt do a stripper but we did do a s*x toy party which was fun and not to mention sooo funny! Or you could look around the area and see if theres ne male reviews going on you could take her too! Hope that helps :)

Answer 2

dont hire a stripper out of your pocket!! go to a strip club with male dancers and female dancers that is near other bars to bar hop-you get to let them pay for what they want and you can use the 300 that you saved to get a limo bc that is always more fun. also make a p***s sucker boquet http://www.peekaboosecrets.com/detail/4/... and a condom veil or belt and have her sell her suckers and condoms for 3 a peice. so then you will have about 400 into it is all and you will have a great time she can buy her own wedding dress costume or whatever she chooses to wear and youve been a good friend and thrown a kick butt party

these are great too and i forgot to mention them at first  http://www.peekaboosecrets.com/detail/4/...    http://www.bachelorette.com/bacsnac.html...

Answer 3

well....if you are planning on doing hotel, stripper, limo, food and drinks you are looking at spending A LOT of money! you should really talk all of this over with all the bridesmaids to see what you all really have to spend on this party- remember you want it to be tons of fun for the bride but not leave you completely broke for six months afterwords!

so decide on what you guys really have to spend- then to save some money have the party at someones house for drinks and food,  then find the cheapest limo or party bus in your area and go to a strip club to party and have tons of fun! going to the strip club is better too because you're in a more party atmosphere and can be loud (hotel's won't like that) and there are more than one guy to drool over while he's shakin his booty! you can stop by a few more places for drinks or just back to the house for the rest of the night for drinks and games.

I have been on quite a few bachlorette parties and was pissed when arriving to find out I needed to help pay for transportation, so if you want to charge each guest $10-$20 make sure you put that on the invites so they are prepared! make sure to assign duties to each bridesmaid also like foods, drinks, and supplies - don't do it all on your own!