I've been recently dreaming of an ex and thinking of him a lot. Is this normal?

Question

Is there something wrong with me? I have been married for 5 years and have two children. I recently looked up and ex on face book and found him. We have emailed each other a time or two. (he managed to hit on me both times...mind you he is married as well) Anyway I had a dream about him last night and I can't stop checking my email to see if he has wrote back. Is this a problem or do other people do this same thing?

Answer 1

Its just a fantasy thing, you have been with your husband so long that your comfortable and use to him, so your mind has stated to play with you, dint listen put some excitement in your marriage change up your routine and i promise you will forget all about your ex. Your body sometimes like change and after so long with the same routine the body cant say that it wants more it shows you in weird ways like fantasies and dreams.

Answer 2

It will pass by. It is normal. Do some different things with your husband. Don't try to talk to your ex though that will be bad and only make things worse. What you put your attention to grows.

Answer 3

Forget the dreams E mail or any other form of communication and remember he's you X for a reason ,,,,  I don't know how long you've been separated but he will not have changed any ,,,,The fact that he's remarried doesn't help anything either ,,,, The guy is a childish jerk not only where you are concerned but also where his present wife is concern also ,,,,  Your dreams and thoughts will not have changed reality ,,,, Leave it alone and stop all contact with him ,,,, There's no future for you in this what so ever ,,,,   //  

Answer 4

I think it's normal.

It's probably just because you miss him.

You miss him but you love your husband.

Ya know :]