I've decided to transform myself.....?

Question

Ok so I'm 16, NEVER had a boyfriend let alone been KISSED yet, over weight, my social life has gone down the gurgler from being always socialising to staying at home and crying due to my life at the moment. Where should I start? I've started going to the gym and buying soem makeup which I have very little experience with......my psychologist said I may have SAD which I had thought about......HOW CAN I CHANGE MYSELF FOR THE BETTER???

*Preferably before Christmas =]*

Answer 1

if ur changeing ur sef for boy then.. i got to say it just plane out dumb. i sorry but is. i have change my self for a boy and i end up hateing me. but if you r over weight then going to the jim not bad thing. just dont over work self. now just between my u i 109 now landy never tells. but a normale waight for a teenager is 130 so if your 5/10 pds over then thats okay. makeup is ur chocie if u no get help. just have fathe that kiss will happend.  

Answer 2

I know it might not help but just try to look at the positives in life.

Also you could try talking to some people at school in your classes and stuff..There are probably a few who are sort of in the same situation.

so sorry if that doesn't help i'm not a physcologist or anything..

good luck to you also =]

Answer 3

Boy!  You sound like a typical teenager!  Welcome to the masses!

Sweetheart, you needn't be so sad and depressed.  You just need to get to work and prepare yourself for life.  First of all, don't be in such a hurry at 16 to be perfect.  Perfection takes a long time.  I would start with a few basic things that will make so many of the other things go away.

First, your diet will be the most important part.  A bad diet will make you fat, depressed, pimply, and sick.  Eat fresh fruits and vegetables in their proper seasons, as much as possible.  Eat little or no meat, as it just clogs the system and contains a lot of fat.  NO MILK.  Milk is made to turn baby cows into big fat cows in one year.  It will also turn you into a big fat, clogged up, sickly, asthmatic cow as well.

Next, you are right to be exercising.  Don't overdo it.  And be consistant.  Very consistant.

Be well-read.  Always be reading good books.  This will make you educated and interesting.  Your vocabulary will improve and so will your conversations.  Avoid movies that are crude and make you feel uncomfortable about yourself.  They only bring you down and drive the Spirit away.

If you are fat because you were molested, get help!  See a teacher you trust, or a counsellor, or someone you trust (not a kid) and get help for you and the abuser.

Finally, the greatest help you can get is from your Heavenly Father.  He loves you unconditionally and wants you to be happy.  Spend time in the scriptures.  Go slowly through them and pray about what you read.  Go to church and participate in the lessons.  Live worthy of receiving His help.  Stay morally clean for your future husband- don't give yourself to any lust-driven boy just because he gives you a smooth line.  He doesn't care about you- only himself.

Be ready for the wonderful young man your Father has prepared for you, if you are worthy.  

Good luck with this.  You will get a lot of advice from this venue- some good and some bad.  Prayerfully think about what I have said, as well as others, and choose the best course of action for you.  Of course I would prefer you call the Mormon missionaries and have them explain some of these principles to you, but good luck in any case.