I've found the perfect girl at work, but..

Question

I worked at my current job for a year and a half, left for four months because I moved, then moved back and started again a week ago. The day I got back I met the most gorgeous, sweetest, most amazing girl I've ever met. We hit it off and have talked all the time at work, and get along really well. Some co-workers have told me she has told them she is interested in me, but from what I've seen she seems interest in another guy there, who is also new. Everyone tells me he is a jerk, but I dont know him. I really would like to start dating this girl, but have never been good at knowing what to do or say in these situations. I am not ugly, but I'm deffinatley now really attractive or anything. I am the nicest, sweetest guy you could know, and I am funny, but I just get frozen up in these situations. What can I do to get her to date me before the other guy dates her?

Answer 1

this sounds overrated but just be calm and be yourself. it's true and it works (and of course if she already has interest in you that's a plus). try not to sound too pushy or she might get turned off you know. but i think you are a nice guy and just enjoy each others company i guess.

good luck =D

Answer 2

You could tell her you need to purchase an outfit and wondered if she could help you pick it out?  Be prepared to purchase what she picks out for you!  This way she won't feel pressured that it was planned just for her, you were going anyway.  Of course you're going to have to eat afterwards, then maybe a show?  Why stop at an outfit for you, have her look for an outfit for herself and get it for her.   If she doesn't want to go out with you then just tell her ok, maybe next time or tell her if she'd ever like to go out sometime just let you know.   This leaves the door open and gives her the power.  **** luck!

Answer 3

ur just like me but older lol u shud practice askin her out infront of the mirror or a friend u cud go to a movie restaruant or anythin u lik i wanted to ask this girl out n i was afriad so i practice with my bestfriend sister and now im going out with her for exactly one month hoped this helped plz answer mine

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