I'm 18 years old. I'm a a good kid who makes good grades. I don't really drink and I've never done drugs. I'm pretty successful at everything I put my mind to. My problem is that my parents treat me like I'm still a little kid. I understand that I am their first born so their going to be cautious but their over the top. My moms idea of curfew is 10:30 at night and thats during the summer. She always assumes the worst and has to know exactly where and what I'm doing every single minute of the day. I know that good parents should care and be involved in their kids lifes, but I cant take it anymore. Its getting to a point where I dont feel like I'm leading a normal teenage life. I'm a very logical person and whenever I logically try to sit down and explain my point of view, they tell me I'm ungratefull and that one day when I have my own kids I will understand. Most of the time I just sit there and take it but this latest incident really ticked me off. My bf wants to take me to meet his grandparents. They live a few states away the drive is about 6-7 hours. Well my bf was going to drive us down there. There arent going to be any adults with us as we drive to our destination, but were a "no stopping" kinda bunch. Well when my bf's dad called my parents, my parents flipped and said no way on gods great earth will they let me go. I do understand that is it a long drive but this is kinda the icing on the cake and has really made me think about everything else they have done. I only have one more year of high school left then I'm going to college. I want to enjoy senior year, but its hard with my overcontroling parents always at my side. Should I just sit there and take it for a whole year or should I at least attempt to "reason" with them?
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