I'm having a tough time balancing school, home, my relationship, making time for everyone, money, seemingly everything. I feel like I'm being pressured and so much is expected of me. I don't want to seem spoiled or ungrateful, but lately I've been very depressed. For one, I want to break up with my boyfriend because I think it will end all my stresses and worries, but I'm afraid once he's out of my life I'll feel worse. I love him, and we've been together for nearly 9 months now, but there's so many issues: he has a child with another girl (drunk+one night stand=life changing), I have suspisions that he's cheated but there's a lot that tells me he hasn't so maybe I'm paranoid, and sometimes I think I could do better but then other times I feel that he's the best thing in my life right now... confusing? Yeah..
I really want a job but I can't get one because there isn't anywhere near by and I'd have to walk there. I'm almost 18 and my parents won't take me to get my license. My grades in school are dropping because I'm giving up. I have no interests in school anymore, it's just not new and fun like it used to be. I want to save all my money so I can move out and no longer depend on my parents for everything, but that just can't happen right now.
I feel like I'm living for nothing right now... there's nothing in my life at this point to keep me around and I just want it to end. I feel like a burden in everyone's life. My dad told me today that he can see where my priorities are and that he doesn't care if I just move out and leave. He told me I'm useless and said I don't do anything, which is a lie because everyday I come home and do my laundry, keep my room clean, help with dishes... I'm not a bad kid, never smoked anything or gotten in serious trouble. I lost my best friends this year and I feel like I have nobody to turn to. Can anyone give me some sort of advice? I'm not sure what to do anymore and I'm tired of going through this. I need help before I make any drastic decisions. Everyday I wake up, it's like the same bad dream like my life is going nowhere =/ Ugh this isn't like me either, I've always been happy, funny, lots of friends, great in school... any form of help is GREATLY appreciated.
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