I've just started having s*x with my boyfriend but haven't orgasmed yet. What's wrong with me?

Question

A few weeks ago my boyfriend and I decided to start having s*x. He orgasms everytime but I haven't orgasmed once yet. Is there something wrong? And advice please about how I could. Thanks.

Answer 1

Nothing is wrong with you at all. It is very rare to o****m when you first start having s*x, although boys do every time. Foreplay is a good way to work up to an o****m and as you become more comfortabe with having s*x you will discover what you like and what turns you on. It just takes time. Good luck  

Answer 2

Don't worry, it may not be you. It could be him. He may not be doing it for you.

Just because he does, doesn't mean you automatically do.

All it takes for a man to o****m, is for a female to say hi to them.

So don't worry too much. Your time will ***. ; )

Answer 3

Teach him!

Tell him what makes you feel good

Answer 4

The majority of women--I think it's like 70% can't o****m from straight penetration. Get him to stimulate your clitoris, or do it yourself. For a lot of people that is the only way to climax during s*x.

Answer 5

there are many reasons for don't having o****m

1- ur boyfriend may have premature ejaculation so he doesn't make much thrush into ur v****a

2- ur boyfriend don't know about G-spot. u can lie on ur back and he inserted his fingers into ur v****a upward and he massage till u feel pleasure "search the internet for data about this spot"

3- ur clitoris is important part in this, so he must l**k it and rub it

4- may be u are worried about s*x so u don't secrete sufficient lubricant, so he can try a water based lubricant on his p***s "K Y gel"

           GOOD LUCK

Answer 6

Most women don't o****m from penetrating s*x alone... they need some sort of clitoral stimulation.

If you m********e and have orgasms that way, you can do (or get your man to do) the things that get you off when you're alone.

If you don't... well, there's no time like now to learn.  (How's your guy gonna know how to do you right if you don't know yourself?)

Masturbation is having s*x with the only person you'll ever meet who knows *exactly* what you feel and what you like, even if that changes every second.

One thing you can do to find out is check out this webpage:

http://www.coolnurse.com/masturbation_ho...

Read the page all the way through, and try some of the things suggested (including the "extras" linked at the bottom). Take your time (it might take a whole afternoon the first time), and just enjoy learning what feels best for you... it's fun. Sooner or later, you'll have an o****m, and they get better each time if you're one of those lucky girls who can have them again and again.

It can take anywhere from a few seconds to a couple of hours to reach o****m... both of these are unusual but normal, and anything in between is just fine.

Just before o****m, you might have a feeling a bit like you have to pee, but it's not quite the same, and when your o****m first happens, there'll be a very strong (sometimes intense and *powerful*), warm and sometimes tingly feeling that spreads from your clitoris to your v****a and then through your whole lower body. Then very quickly your clitoris, your v****a, your crotch muscles and your butt-hole will squeeze and pulse a few times while that feeling spreads all over you.

During all this, your toes will probably curl, you might feel like you need to hold your breath or like you have to breathe really fast, your body will want to tense up and might jerk or shake or shiver, and you might make some noises (grunts, gasps, groans or cries) that you can't really control. You might "squirt" or "ejaculate" a lot of fluid from your urethra (don't worry, it's not pee). The whole time, it's just about the best feeling there is.

(Everything you "might" feel or do above isn't always going to happen... some orgasms are much less overwhelming than just *very* pleasureable.)

As that feeling becomes more gentle and starts to go away (after maybe 5 to 20 seconds), your whole body will begin to relax, and you might feel sort of like having a nap... or like just lying there and letting your mind drift.

Have fun and don't worry. Masturbating is normal and healthy, and learning what pleases you sexually is good for you... especially because you'll know what to tell (even better: *show*) your man about how to please you when you have s*x.

Answer 7

not every girl orgasms..

although.. make sure he's doing what feels best to you.

this could help.

have you ever orgasmed?

if not, maybe you are one of the people who don't.

it's wierd i no.. and sad, but unfortuneately true..

goodluck hun tc :)

Answer 8

Welcome to womanhood! They always do, we have to work on it a little harder. Some women go their entire lives without having an o****m. If you really want to have one buy a vibrator, because as much as I love men, they can be a bit neglectful about it. It seems to happen so easy for them they just assume it's the same for us.