I've liked this guy since September and I'm depressed I don't have him?

Question

Okay. In September I walked up to this kid in chorus and asked him if he was so and so because my brothers best friends little bro was in my class and I didn't know who he was. I told him who I was and he was like heyy. Ever since we've flirted and stuff but I realized he flirts with alot of girls. Well I didn't give the best impression but some nights we would stay up late iming and have great conversations. I like him so much and have dreams about him (like last night I dreamt we were walking around and he held my hand and it made me so depressed). Well he hasn't been picking up my texts yet his away message says to text and people on his myspace are like sorry I didn't text you back. I really want him. We've never hung out outside of drama or school alone (I have hung out with him with my bro). I know hes a player but I know he respects my bro and would never hurt me. How do I get him to like me? Plus he might be going out with this really S****y s**t and don't say I don't want him

Answer 1

it's simple. kill the batman

Answer 2

i understand your situation. i had the same exact problem with a boy in school this school year. ive also been depressed and i never thought that he would hurt me and i wanted him. but in the end, he ended up hurting me and i became more depressed. for now, become close friends with him and just be yourself around him. dont try too hard or you can mess up, like i did. and try not to text him or IM him tooo much because if he doesnt reply, it might mean he can get annoyed. just be yourself. guys like that. look, if he goes out with this s**t, then maybe it was never meant to be. the guy that i liked went out with a s**t when i liked him, and so i got over it. if he chooses the fake s**t (or w/e u can call it) over you, then hes an idiot. and you cant really get him to like you UNLESS you show who you are, so that he can like you for who you are. trust me when i say this. i didnt believe it either but one day if he acts like a jerk or does sumthing to hurt you, such as not liking you back, just forget him. especially if hes a player, which usually ends up bad. but who knows.

ps. dont worry about it, there are more better guys out there with a better personality and looks put together. you never know what might show up! if something bad ever happens though, dont EVER let it take over you or hurt you. because you know a jerk like that doesnt deserve a girl like you.

by the way- if you wanna become close friends with him, make sure he doesnt know that u like him, so it wont be awkward or he might act weird. most guys do that. DONT BE DEPRESSED over some guy! =] and im 14 too so i had the same problem.

Answer 3

LMAO. kill batman.

Just be really nice to him,

compliment him, ask him to hang-out sometime,

smile at him lots.

Answer 4

its hard to have him not answer u or talk to u mabe u should tell ur bother to talk to him about it.. it may be akward but u need to let him no then mabey he will talk to u it is better when a crush nose then he will notice u