I've loved this girl for 5 years and she doesn't love me. help?

Question

i have loved her for 5 years and think about her everyday i cant even sleep at night. help please

Answer 1

if you know she doesnt love you for sure, you gotta move on

Answer 2

lol....move on and find another one

Answer 3

In life you have to be with someone who loves you more than you love her. you might be able to hang around but you're not going to be happy.

Answer 4

accept that she doesnt love you. move on !

im sorry life can be cruel sometimes

Answer 5

:( it's true. took me 4 years to get over a boy who didn't even remember who i was. but that's all the past now, and i'm happy i've moved on.

Answer 6

Move on and spare yourself more heartache. It's a waste of time going after someone who don't feel the same. Try to limit your time of thinking about her. And if possible avoid seeing her as much as possible. This may be hard but it makes it easier. Find some other girls who you think might be interested in you.

Answer 7

evoid her for 1 year

then start dating others

Answer 8

I'm afraid you can't really do much mate. I agree with the dude above me.

Answer 9

I loved one girl for about 22 years and she doesn't give a d**n if I'm dead or alive. Move on, my friend. Move on.

Answer 10

Move on she doesn't like  There plenty of other girls in the world don't wasted your life on chasing a girl who doesn't like you

Answer 11

move on if she doesn't like u she dosen't like u

Answer 12

If she has rejected you sorry playboy it is time to move on. Five years is 4 girlfriends and 2 or 3 on the side.  

Answer 13

Hm... Is she your friend? Does she know you exsist? Is she one of those pretty popular girls? Important questions. If she knows about you, try to gain her friendship. You can't control whether she likes you or not, but you can try, and hope she'll like you back.

Answer 14

It's how girls play with our minds...

Answer 15

Face the reality you need to find another girl for you, dont concentrate your time to that girl so that you can forget her.

Answer 16

Move on. Sorry, I don't want to sound cruel but you really should find someone else who will like you in return.

Answer 17

get a therapist...

Answer 18

find a new girl

Answer 19

Seriously, move on. That may sound a little harsh, but look at it this way, you've wasted 5 years that could have been spent with someone who loves you back. It's time to move on and forget about her. It's called life.  

Answer 20

If you still got the will to show a girl you love her, channel that into some one else. It might take time, but every one survives. Start going to the gym, buff up, work on your charm with female friends, develop interesting skills (learn to cook, play an instrument, learn to dance, etc.), become a better and refined person. Maybe she'll see you differently. It won't matter. You'll feel more confident about other girls.

Answer 21

im sorry. but sometimes there isn't any you can do. good luck.!

Answer 22

punch yourself in the croth hard every time you think about her. Do it twice

you may think im joking but im not

if your committed and doing it for real you will stop thinking about her i promise u

Answer 23

Welcome to life

Answer 24

Just be honest with her . Don't hide ur true feelings . just hope one day she will love u back !Or u can move on and start ur live from the very first page .

Answer 25

You have to get over her if she really doesn't love you back. Theres no sense loving a girl, when she doesn't love you. Its going to be hard but its the best thing for you and your heart.

Answer 26

Aww, that's so sweet. Have u told her how u feel? If u haven't u should. If she doesn't say she doesn't love u back. That's ok. Give her some time. Maybe she ain't ready 4 all of that.

Answer 27

Well are you too good friends? If so keep trying, if she's just superficial about you and that's why she won't go out with you, then I doubt theres anything you can do. The extreme thing is to get a makeover but is that worth it?

If there's some other reason why she won't go out with you, then try to fix it or wait until its the right time and ask her again. Hope for the best! (In the end, if that doesn't work, try your best to move on :-/)

Answer 28

wow you need to start accepting that she doesn't love you and try to move on. Have the idea in your head that it's over, that you will move on and stop. You're obsessing over her for no reason. In the end you're wasting your time and only hurting yourself.