I've made the decision not to date in high school, how can I keep this up?

Question

I'm doing this for religious reasons, and because of my priorities in life.

The thing is though, I get stupid like when I see a cute guy. I start acting like a complete airhead. All I do is flirt with him, think about him and it turns into a mini obsession. I HATE IT. I want to avoid this at all costs. Do you have any suggestion?

Answer 1

well follow your beleifs. you can still flirt with him because thats not dating. and if he askes you out just explain why you cant and if hes worth anything h**l understand. you can be friends still and that might even be more fun

Answer 2

m********e to keep your s*x erges at bay.

Have crushes on stars, so you know you can never get them.

ANd just, try to control it. It's a good idea. I'm doing the same thing darling. You can get hurt by guys and it's better to wait until you mature. That's what I'm doing anyway. So, wen I'm older, THEN I can ingage in marriage, s*x, relationships..and recieving chocolate on my birthday. : ) GOd BLess Darlin

Answer 3

good luck

Answer 4

okkkay  how about just dating???

Answer 5

Just don't ask them out.

& if they ask you out just say no, but explain why..

Answer 6

don't look at any boys at all  

Answer 7

get a manikin and have s*x with him  

Answer 8

It's time to learn that there is a difference between your ACTIONS and your FEELINGS. You can have any kind of feelings you want, but it's your actions that define you. If you choose not to date, then don't.  It doesn't mean that you can't be friends with guys, though, so decide where your boundaries are, and stick to them.

Thinking about a guy is not "dating" -- it's actually pretty normal for girls your age, it's just biology in action.