I've slept it 3 guys, I'm 17..what do you think of me, as a w***e?

Question

i am 17 and have slept with 3 guys.

the first time i was naive, immatue and small i kinda regret it=/

the second time was a year later w/ really good friend on the first date=/

the third is my actual bf

i feel bad, and low of myself everytime i remember cuz i feel i'm 2 young.. i'm confused n lost. I should be happy,I'm an A grade student, plan 2 go 2 medical school.i am not lonely i have very loving parents(very strict by the way) so this i kinda like a secret that makes me feel lonely n empty inside..what do u think of me??

Answer 1

Nice...so when you intend on getting married you have slept with atleas 35 guys, what would your husband think of you...you know it's just a thought, think about it. You might find the answer yourself.

Good luck

Answer 2

I think you should forgive yourself....and start over.

Mistakes teach us lessons, and you sound like you've learned yours.

Don't make the same mistakes twice.

Be proud of your excellent grades, and your excellent goals for Medical School.

Also be proud of recognizing that your parents are strict, but loving.

You're on the right track!  

Answer 3

Move on with your life. This will be our little secret forever. You are by no means a w***e.

Answer 4

Hun, a you are not a w***e. A w***e gets paid for having s*x.

Honestly, you just need to let go of your past. You already did it and you can't take it back. Forgive yourself and move on.

From now on though, if you feel this bad about it, then just be extra careful of what guys you sleep with.

I wouldn't call yourself a w***e though. You aren't one. People have s*x! I just graduated from college and my freshman and sophomore year, I slept around. I started getting really depressed and mad at myself, but recently I have decided the best thing to do is just move on. I had the experience of it and for the past 3 years, I have only been with one guy. I've dated quit a few guys, but I just decided they have to earn the right to have s*x with me.

Just remember though, there are sooo many girls out there who have slept with soooo many guys. 3 guys is nothing! Forget it and moooove on!  

Answer 5

I've been with 2 guys I'm seventeen. They were both life experiences, if I'm a w***e, I'm a w***e. But I'm living, learning. It doesn't matter.

Answer 6

Nope =)

Answer 7

i work in a s*x clinic believe it or not ..and this is my own opinion i dont have a problem with women at the age of consent sleeping with lots of men as you could have a year long relationship every year with different men what i think is wrong is women and men who go out and get drunk every weekend and sleep with whoever and dont respect their bodies or other people !!!

Answer 8

Honey, everybody makes messes up. Make a commitment to yourself not to engage in s*x until you're married - you'll be glad you did! s*x will never fulfill your need for intimacy; moreover, BOYS DON'T CARE ABOUT YOU, THEY JUST WANT WHAT THEY WANT!!! Finally, learn from the past, look toward the future. God Loves you.

Answer 9

I think that you thought you were ready and realize it was more than you bargained for. That is the down side of ignoring the people who say wait until you are married or older or in a long term relationship. You still have the option to stop having s*x. Most important - forgive yourself. You cannot change the past. You now have adult insight on why teens should wait. Get lost in keeping those A's and becoming a med student. If there is an adult you can trust you may want to share so that you are not carrying this secret alone.

Take Care

Answer 10

It's isn't that bad one of my friends has slept with 10 people, and she isn't a w***e, wait no she is but 3 guys isn't that bad espically if one is your current bf.

your not a w***e, and you can dwell on the past just let it go, it will be a lot easier.

Answer 11

I think you're a p**a actually.

Answer 12

not yet, but your well on your way!

Answer 13

i don't think you're a w***e at all!

Answer 14

no it doesn't make u a w***e, many girls have done worse at younger ages. Maybe u should just hold off on s*x until u really make it special. just try to forget about ur mistakes, they are in the past and u can always make ur future better!

Answer 15

I think you should stop this behavior and concentrate on your studies so you can get into medical school. If you end up getting pregnant, your life will change forever. Good Luck :-)