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I Always Freeze Up When I See A Hot Girl What Should I Do?

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Im 15, It Happened Really Recently When I Was On Holiday And I Saw This Really Hot Girl And I Just Couldnt Speak To Her. I Went To Ask For Her Number And It Happend, I Hate Myself For It. She Was Perfect For Me. I Just Dont Want It To Happen Again. Please Help.

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  1. its all mental. start with positive affirmations. thruout your day, say to yourself....."I can easily talk to girls who i think are hot". whether you believe it or not, keep saying it. Visualize yourself going up to hot girls and holding amazing conversations. say things to yourself like...

    "people say i am really funny, and know how to keep them interested"

    "i'm confident enough to go up to any girl, no matter how hot she is"

    'talking to girls is easy"

    "girls always come up to me and talk"

    "i always find interesting things to say to girls"

    " i always get a number after i talk to a girl"


  2. give her a love letter saying anonymous on it and presents.

    tell her in the end who the h**l it was

  3. think about that its not a big deal

  4. keep a rubber band in your pocket.When you see a girl you want to approach put it on your wrist and snap it.It will help you stay focused.

  5. hey! well alote of people do that when boys see a hot girl sometimes they'll freeze up. ;p it happen es to me alote! when boys see me they freeze but all you really have to do is say to yourself I'm gonna speak to this girl and nothing is going to stop me but it also depends on the girl some girls will make you feel comfortable and some wont really care loll I hope this helped

    Allie,

  6. seems like you afraid and very nervous, have a person who can translate for you just wake up and get on with you life there are many more people out there and when you mature it will help

  7. Just relax and don't think about the worst that can happen. Think about the best outcome ever.

  8. frozen up just from looking at an attractive girl? kinda shallow...

    ull probly grow out of it tho

  9. Well there's nothing like a freeze to help you on your way. lol

  10. Take a deep breath and visualize a really good friend in her place, you will act comfortably around her and she will feel comfortable around you.

  11. same thing happens to me with guys, just i get all dizzy and cant concentrate on talking or anything and cant talk right. i dont really know what to do either but what helps the most is to just to calm yourself quick and reassure yourself that your only trying to talk  to them, and nothing bad's going to happen.

    and don't worry about it too much, ...i think its cute when guys do that:)

  12. wear nappies incase  

  13. ask her out and say do u wanna go out sometime and i did it and that is how i got my girlfriend and im 15 too dont worry. it will work.

  14. You have to have confidence in yourself..you clearly have a little bit of confidence because you went over to chat. You just have to have a bit of faith in yourself. When you approach a girl, breathe out and smile, she'll be attracted to your smile and forget about your nerves..nerves are cute anyway..no-one wants a cocky f.u.c.k.e.r..! x x x

  15. How would you know if she's perfect for you if you just saw her once?

  16. Awwww! that's so cute!

    some girls like the shy guys.

    but no, seriously, you need to over come this 'freeze-up' phase. mind over matter, son.

    just breathe and remember no matter what happens, you took the chance so props to you.

  17. give up hope...

    only kidding. just be chill man whats the worst that can happen? she says no? then forget her.  

  18. There is no cure my man,but its really hard to read that question with everything starting with a capital.Sort it ouy

  19. Just relax if you carry on you will never get a gf  

  20. Just say hello...and then please tell me what advice you get for after that!

  21. Remember this.. She is HUMAN just like you are,  Human. Get the picture

  22. Try talking to other girls you see.  Just try saying Hello, and gradually move on to more conversation, like "How are you?" and eventually you'll warm up enough to talk to a hot girl when you see her.

  23. Imagine it is your mom or aunt. That might help.

  24. I'm a girl, but stuff like this happens to me. Not that guys freeze up when they talk to me, but.. anyways. I use to go up to like gorgeous guys and just have a conversation, and we'd end up being good friends. Then one day I just couldn't talk to them! Like the words couldn't form in my mouth, and I just walked away. I started picturing them really ugly, or think about something else and it got my mind off it. Weird huh?

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