I Am 16 Nd Datin A 12 Yr Old, I Lyk Her Nd She Lyks Me, But Is This To Much Of A Gap. Plz Help!!!!?

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I Am 16 Nd Datin A 12 Yr Old, I Lyk Her Nd She Lyks Me, But Is This To Much Of A Gap. Plz Help!!!!?

Answer 1

so long as her parent(s) approve and you treat her right, (dont take advantage of her) you should be just fine.

Answer 2

it's okay as long as u want her cuz u love her and ur not using her to get in her pants or something.

love is love and age is just a number in the game of love.

=]

besides when u guyz get older that is nothing.

its normal then like when ur in ur 20s and 30s.

Answer 3

12 year olds are way too young to date. If I was her parent I would be making sure she NEVER sees you agian. It's sick! And even if you wait until she is a few years older you will always be too old for her. Find a girl your age, she's just a child who needs to live her life as a child not as someones little love doll.

-Jean

Answer 4

I think it's fine, as long as you remember her age and do not force her into anything like and explain to her that you are not expecting any thing from her cus she could also feel as if where you are older and more likely to have a sexual relationship you may want something from her so she could feel pressured.

Just as long as you're mature one in the relationship about it and if you really like each other, I don't see a reason why you cant make it work. And as long as she is open with her parents about it and they know about it.

When i was 11ish my first boyfriend was 16ish 5 years older. We found it hard when his friends made comments but it wasnt a sexual relationship it was a loving cute one in which was jus about holding hands a the odd kiss and cuddles areally lovely thing and still now i still hear from him even though we havent been together for years and now i still miss them kind of simple non sexual relationships that i had when i was young s*x has kind of destroyed any relationship that i have had.

So go for it xx

Answer 5

YES! its different if both of u r in highschool. but that is to much of an age difference

Answer 6

I think it's perfectly fine, as long as you take her age into consideration. Don't force her into anything like that, kay? ;]

Just think of it this way:

When a 26 year old is dating a 22 year old, does that seem weird?

Not at all ^_^

Just as long as you're mature about it and really like each other, I don't see a reason why you wouldn't go for it!

Answer 7

wow..

you really couldn't get someone in AT LEAST middle school?

Answer 8

are u sure ur not the twelve year old tAlKiN lYkE tHiS?

anyway.

five years is a pretty big gap.

but it shouldnt matter, should it?

who cares if people think ur some dirty guy trying to get action out of a 12 year old?

Answer 9

it really doesnt matter as long as you both like each other a lot of people see it wrong but if u look at most peoples parent there age it no where alike

Answer 10

uhmm.. well kinda yea. but if u guys really love each other than it wouldnt matter. other than that yea i think its kind of a gap.

Answer 11

Well for one, stop talking like an idiot and two, she is way to young

wait until you guys are in your 20's.

Answer 12

Yes at 12 dating a 16 year old is too much of a gap.

Answer 13

age wise not really, but grade wise, YES. shes like a 7 grader. but if you guys really like each other, then dont worry about it.

Answer 14

Yep...your old enough to have s*x...she isnt old enough.....if you do anything like that with her you could be locked up for it have to sign the s*x offenders register which will classify you as a peadophile for the next 10 years....tread carefully!!!! If you really like her you will be with her in 4 years when you are 20 and she is 16.....you can do what you like then...but at the moment...you are almost a grown man...and she is just a little kid...probably about to start puberty!!!!