I Bought Drinks For My Ex At The Club?

Question

While I was on a date with my girlfriend. My girlfriend found out I was running a tab for my ex and now she is furious. She said

I was disrespectful of her to do that. Was I wrong?? It wasn't my

fault anyway,,I told the bartender to keep it a secret but he didn't.

Answer 1

Jo Jo, you are the man, and you can do what you want, you should have been hiding it, that means you have something to hide, are you still trying to get with the ex?

running a tab is a little shady. buying a drink is fine.

Answer 2

That was stupid.

Answer 3

did ya hit that?

Answer 4

Ask yourself how you would feel if she was doing something secret with/for her ex while she was out with you. Like most people on a date, your girl probably wanted to feel like she was the only important thing in the world to you. She got upset because you were focused partially on your ex and also because you were keeping a secret from her. That is always a tricky, slippery slope and may be a tell-tale sign about your relationship with your current girlfriend.

Plus, get real about thinking that it was not "your fault"! Who ran the tab?? Take responsibility for your actions...

Answer 5

Yes, you were wrong and very disrespectful towards your current girlfriend.  Furthermore, you should take responsibility for your own action, it was your fault, since you had a tab open for her.  You knew it was wrong, why else keep it a secret?

Answer 6

You shouldn't do that if you really are into your new girl. That was so stupid of yuo to do it...