I CAN'T TAKE MY FAMILY ANYMORE!!!! PLEASE HELP!?!?!

Question

THIS IS ALL THIS SUMMER!!!

- he opens the door on me twice when I'm changing then i yell at him and my parents yell at me for yelling and are like he said sorry twice get over it

- my parents don't care what i think

-i can't choose what stores i want to shop at

- they treat me like a little kid

- there is nothing to do in my house i have less then 20 channels on the TV

-my brother will do anything to tick me off literally

-my brother is messed up... he'll sing opera randomly, he cries over everything, he yells at me and said i want to kill u when i was babysitting them bc i asked him to come inside when a storm is coming

-he doesn't think

- my parents are always your brother is so nice to you why are u always so mean when i get him movies from the library on my card and have to pay his overdue fines i try to stay calm with him and he calls me an idiot when i don't even curse I'm 13 he is 9

-my parents think I'm a brat

-I'm also yelled at for backtalk when I'm trying to explain what is wrong

i want to runaway but i know that is really dangerous i just don't know what to do

PLEASE PLEASE HELP

Answer 1

I really don't think your life is that bad. Do you eat every night? Are you warm? Do they love you? As for only having 20 channels, try reading a book. Siblings will fight and battle. It happens. Why don't you look at what's happening to other kids in the world and realize how lucky you are.

Answer 2

Why dont you message me? maybe we could talk about some more.

Answer 3

it'll only be for a while, a few years maybe but it'll pass, hehehe

Answer 4

be thankful that school will be starting soon. If possible, record the c**p that he is pulling on you and show it to your parents. My oldest son feels his 10 myr old brother gets away with murder but I catch him doing stuff just to get his brother to scream and yell. It's been going on all summer. I recorded them and made them watch themselves. Since then they have been a little nicer to each other. Not much but it's better. Get over the TV channels. That's more than I had when I was growing up. Cable/satalite isn't cheap. That's what DVD's are for. Rent movies or TV shows that you want to see. If brother doesn't want to come in when it's raining, leave him out there and note that you told him to come in. When expaining things to your parents, do it in a calm voice. Don't raise your voice at all. calm and monotone can be helpful. If things get back, buy a lock for your door and lock him out when your changing, or use the bathroom and lock it.

Answer 5

i know that it is difficult. Siblings can be quite annoying, School will be starting up fairly soon, that way you arent spending the whole day with your family, you will be in school for most of the day, and just have to deal with them in the evenings. You have 5 years until you can move out on your own legally.

Dont run away. that will just cause further problems, and your parents will most likely be very upset, and it can cause turmoil within the family (i know from experience.) plus you cant runaway from your problems. its not like your parents are beating you and keeping you in the closet and not feeding you, just your little bro is annoying you, so just deal with it, within time he will grow up. but you will prob. be in college when he does. so just live with them and be happy, they're your family.

When i was in high school, thats when i wanted to run away because same thing, my brother would always annoy me... I eventually sort of ranaway to  my grandparents house for  a few days, and ever since my paretns and i have been on bad terms. (that was like 5 years ago or more.) I shouldnt have ran away, i should have just stayed put and tried to get along with my brother and just the family in general. Because now i probably would have a better relationship with my parents.

so, just stick with it. you'll get through it :-)

Just try and be pleasant to deal with when you are home with the family.

Its hard  being a teenager :-) i know :-)

Good luck !

Hope this helped :-)

Answer 6

just simply at a time just go to your mom and/or dad alone and tell them how they have been treating you and it makes you feel like you want to run away and it might workout, or you are screwed until you move out...

Answer 7

You should be thankful that you have a TV, clothes, a home and a family even though they aren't perfect. You will be grown up soon and can move away if you still want to.

Study some current events. Take a look at what life is like for kids in third world countries. If you think you still have it rough, I will be very disappointed in you.

Tabitha - TU girl!

Answer 8

i have the same problem with my little brother

Answer 9

I'm also 13 going thru almost the same thing,

if ur door locks that's a start...i usually just stay in my room, i decked it out, with tons of mirrors, candles, a bean bag chair, anything comfortable and relaxing. you should try it, make ur room comfy enough to stay in for hours get an amazing sound system and cds write do art, whatever makes u happy, just go to ur room to cool off have some u time and also hang out with your friends more often away from home. that also works for me! good luck

if u want to talk about it in length ever, feel free to e-mail me. my real name is crystal

Answer 10

i have to put up with alot of that too like my little bro is the devil's child sometimes and parents always defend the smaller child...if i put up with it you can, tell your parents calmly how you feel. it might help but if it doesn't at least you got all that weight off you and just opened up. i know it always helps me to talk to someone

ps- just relax  and accept your little bro becuz hes family look @ the bright side : school will start soon =P

Answer 11

The part that got me was "I have less than 20 channels on TV..."

I guess I'm getting old.

Answer 12

just chill it past when school starts.

Answer 13

If u were 16 u could have gotten anticipated.But since u are not,the best is to stay away from the house.Go hang out with you're Friends.And if the say you are in trouble,JUst ignore them ,and sneak off.I know it`s bad not to listen ,but you don`t have to listen all the time.Stay at the library reading( i did the same).