I Crashed and Lost the Baby?

Question

I got pregnant with my ex's baby at the beginning of June and I lied to him and told him I got my period. Well, at the beginning of July, he decided that we shouldn't ever talk again because he got a new gf while still messing with me. I still didn't tell him I was pregnant then either, At the end of July I was racing golf carts and I ended up flipping over in a ditch and I lost the baby. Should I tell my ex what happened, or should I just leave it alone?

Answer 1

You never told him in the first place so do not tell him now.

He may not believe you anyway.

Sorry for you loss.

Honestly, it's probably for the best. If he was messing with you and seeing this other girl, he's not worth it.

Find someone who is worth your time.

Answer 2

As much as it probably hurts that you lsot the baby, you should just leave it alone.  

If he is saying that he doesn't want to talk to you anymore, he's probably going to be hateful to you and act like you are making it all up just to "talk to him" again.

If the thought of losing the baby is weighing heavy on your mind, talk to your mom or best friend to help you through it.  Good luck to you, and sorry for your loss!

Answer 3

Just leave it alone.

Answer 4

you should tell him cuz if you dont it could haunt you over time and he might understand by wtf racing golfcarts for?? and sorry for your lose

Answer 5

just leave it! why were you racing golf carts while being pregnant?

Answer 6

Leave it alone. He probably wouldn't believe you. You should have told him when you first found out you were pregnant. If you do become pregnant in the future, please be more careful with yourself.  

Answer 7

you shouldnt tell him, he didnt even know you were pregnant. and the next time you are pregnant, no golf cart racing

Answer 8

let it be

Answer 9

I would leave it alone.  You lied to him in the first place and he has moved on.  I don't see the point of bringing it up.

Answer 10

leave it alone

Answer 11

1st of all, wth were u doing racing golf carts while u were pregnant? Were u intentually trying to hurt this baby? Maybe it was for the best bc u are obviously not mature enough for a baby. I'm sorry for your loss tho but u shouldn't tell him bc he may be upset and ask u these same questions.

Answer 12

I would just leave it now, you risk huge arguments and unpleasantness over something that now cant be changed. Why on earth were you doing something as stupidly dangerous as that while you were pregnant? Please learn for next time.  

Answer 13

You can tell him but he won't believe you.  He will think that you want sympathy and attention from him.  I think I would leave it alone.  All though the same sort of thing happened to my brother.  His gf told him of a miscarriage 6 years later and he flipped out.  But they are still together and have one child.  I think it would have been best not said at all.  My own personal opinion.

Answer 14

Leave it.  You already lied to him, why tell him the truth now. It won't change anything.

Answer 15

I am so sorry that you lost the baby. Just leave it alone don't pull your ex into it, however. He has made it clear that he has moved on to someone else. That is good for you since he was two-timing you anyway.

Use protection in the future since, as you've sadly found out, men don't always tell the truth. The diseases you could get from unprotected s*x could pale in comparison to getting pregnant. Better safe than very, very sorry!! : /

Answer 16

Leave it alone, he had no idea you were even pregnant. Maybe if you wouldn't have been lying to him, then you would have some sympathy. But it was probably for the better since he had a new girlfriend anyways.

Answer 17

leave it  

Answer 18

I'm so sorry for your loss.

:-(

I'm not sure what you should do.  How sad.

Answer 19

leave it be

Answer 20

You can't say anything now..You never told him in the first place so it's not like it's going to change anything now..And why were you RACING golf carts while pregnant? Did you not think of the risk involved?