I DO want to make a Family you know! Is not a Joke!?

Question

SO I'm 20 years old & don't laugh but i want to get married & have Kids, To who i talk about this they joke with me & they always say to me that other girls in my age want to Travel or to go out & have fun, & I tell them but I'm not like other girls,

So is it so bad that i think & i feel like that?...

Answer 1

no. yer cool. yer thinking about kids and having a family. i guess yer mature. i think its great, but dont marry some random dude just to start a family and have kids.

Answer 2

u kno what,, u r 20, i guess u should wait for 3-4 years and then get married, dnt be in hurry, marriage is once in life time decision u take ,which either makes ur life orruins it.

So its better u enjoy ur life for 3-4 years more and when u r 24 or 23 u can look for a potential partner,,

u kno what watever ur family problems may be, but wat ur family said abt tht girls of ur age wanna travel ,have fun is right,,,,,

this is not appropriate age for marriage.

enjoy life ,and smile ,,,

smile is a expression of u that comes from ur heart ,,and its the most priceless gift u can give or get frm any 1... so next time smile when u see someone u kno at him/her jst friendly even if there is no joke or reason,, and see difference..... and always smile.

Answer 3

Whats wrong with that? I'm only 22, and I've had a strong urge to get married and have kids since I was about 16. Sure, some girls want to travel and do other things first, but do what makes YOU happy, not what makes everyone else happy!  Just make sure you find Mr.Right first, and make sure you can afford to have kids. In the meantime, spend some time at a childrens hospital, or get a job as a nanny or working in a daycare. I find that working with kids helps soothe the nagging urge to have my own until I can get myself into a situation where thats a good idea. You may even be one of the few people in our generation to actually live long enough to see their grandkids!