I DONT KNOW WAT TO DO ANYMORE??? HOW DO I LIVE WITH SOMEBODY THAT DOES NOT WANNA BE MARRIED TO ME ?

Question

I GOT MARRIED TWO DAYS AGO TUESDAY IS THRURSDAY TODAY AND MY WIFE TOLD ME TODAY SHE MADE A COMMITMENT SHE ISNT READY FOR SHE THINKS WE RUSHED AND NOT THAT SHE WONT EVER BE SHE JUST ISNT READY FOR IT RIGHT NOW

I THOUGHT SHE LOVED ME BUT NOW SHE JUST WANTS TO BE AWAY FROM ME IS SHE CHEATTING

HOW DO I DIVORCE IN THREE DAYS OF BEING MARRIED

SHE SAYS SHE ISNT HAPPY THAT SHE LOVES ME BUT SHE JUST WANTS TIME ALONE RIGHT NOW

Answer 1

Bless your heart!  First of all, you can have the marriage annulled.  You don't have to file for divorce.  People have annulments all the time.  I know that's not the answer you're looking for, but, unfortunately, you aren't the one that's made the choice.  She has already made the decision for you.

Women get cold feet, just like men do.  Give her what she's asked for, a little time to contemplate what she really wants, and go from there.  I wouldn't do anything to hastily, as in annulling the marriage.  She asked for a little time along, so grant her request before you make another step forward.

By asking for a little time, it doesn't necessarily mean she's cheating.  She may take a few days and realize it's just nerves and settle back down like nothing has happened.  Time will tell.  I know it may not be much consolation, but at least she's being upfront with you.

God bless you, Darlin'.

Answer 2

First of all..... slow down and take a breath.... She just might be having 2nd thought.... A few people get that.... If she wants a few days away I say give it to her. In a few days she just might realize you are the best thing for her, and if that happen you have lost nothing by giving her a few day.... because you just might get a few years of marriage out of her. If in a few days she says she want a divorce... that is ok to, because you have not wasted a few years of marriage..

Long story short.... give her the time she needs.... I have been married for the last 20 years and I always stay... "If you want to be married for a long time.... slow down and both of you talk to each other to make sure it is what you both want and make sure you are getting married for the right reason..

Good luck

Answer 3

Sometimes women react like this to a big time event in here life,she isprobably scared and fears the worse. Give her a few days to settle down and then ask her is she thinks shes made a mistake and whether she wants to get an anulment. Also, if she loves u, stay together and make it work.

maybe she hs something 2 tell u about her past and shes guilty ormaybe shes just confused. maybe shes insecure. Itl settle.

Answer 4

Ok, first, you need to learn how to turn Caps Lock off! Why don't you try listening to her? If she says that she wants time alone then that's probably what she means, not that she's cheating! If she's not sure about marrying you though, then it's best for all concerned to get a divorce - There's no point spending the rest of your life with someone you don't love.

Answer 5

Get an anullment and shame on her she should have never done this to you she knew she wasnt ready for this and went along with it anyways that B*tch

Answer 6

Give her the space she needs. Stay at a hotel 3-5 nights and see how she likes being alone. If she wants to be alone, just leave. You shouldn't be in an unhappy marriage.  

Answer 7

Get an annulment.

She should have told you sooner.

Watch the Wedding Singer..

Answer 8

Get an anullment while you can.

Answer 9

you have a real problem, it sounds like a bad case of cold feet,and she is scared of the commitment thing,how long did you date and how old is she? don't rush into divorce,maybe give her sometime,kc