I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!! HELP ME PLEASE!!! :(((((((?

Question

OK, my girl friend (tiffany) and i have been dating on and off for about 3 years, around demember she broke up with me, and went out with someone i hate, and they dated make out then she came running back, ( everyone knew she would) and i did take her back, cuz i loved her but then like 2 months ago, she did it again with this guy named rj, who i also hated, and she was ALWAYS with him, drove with him everywhere everynight was wirth him, and guess what she wanted me back, i was stupid and did, and i was just with her in her car going to walmart with her and her phone rings, i grab it and she reaches and grabs it fast and wouldnt let go(trying to hide somethnig?) and i was just her sister. then we get to walmart and another text, its rj saying "ok bye :)"

so im like TAKE ME HOME NOW she is balling saying she never talked to him after we got in a fight( he fought me cuz he got mad she wanted me back) * i kicked his ****

but she is balling aYING no i idnt do anythnig, but i say she did in my head cuz she was so fast to get that first text( so i think ahe delelted the text from him) and then he texted back, who should i believe ( me self or her?) please tell me everything!!!!

Answer 1

Yourself. Your girlfriend is two timing you, if I were you I would dump her she is just going to end up cheating on you aggain and run back to you

Answer 2

it sounds like you are her safety net. she can come and go as she pleases because she knows you will keep taking her back. and you keep taking her back because you are blinded by love. look at how she treats you? if she really loved you then why would she keep breaking up with you? why does she keep going out with other guys the first chance she gets? she is using you and it's not right that she keeps doing that to you.  you need to break it off with her asap! and find someone who has true feelings for you and will want to stay with you. You will be hurt for awhile-but that pain goes away with time, friends, and new memories made. good luck to you! trust me, you will find someone else. be strong!

Answer 3

She's not worth it. Dump that trash and don't look back.

Answer 4

always believe yourself. you have to trust yourself and let things go. i know its hard but you most def. deserve more than her. you are better than that. don't stoop to her level

Answer 5

Sometimes feelings for a girl will mess w/ your mind, & you're not too sure if Tiff" is just ****ing you over again. And as well, you're really ticked too.  Though in the long run if you really like her a lot then perhaps you could allow her back in good with you, but it should be strictly conditional.

Your boy RJ is off limits. No contact in any way, shape, or form; end of story. Otherwise; "breakfast is on the patio". (kicked 2 the curb)

Good luck, man!

Answer 6

Cheat on me once. Shame on you.

Cheat one me twice. Shame on me. <}:-{(

Answer 7

Look at it this way.  You've been dumped by her twice.  You have every reason to believe it may happen a 3rd time.  Usually, the dumpee is the one that suffers the most, they take months and may need therapy.  The dumper gets over things in about 10 minutes.  Logical conclusion:  you should beat her to the punch and dump her first.  You'll be happier and eventually meet up with someone you can trust.

Answer 8

Believe yourself. The reason she's crying is because she was caught in the act. Yeah, she deleted the other messages...

Forgive her though? but...maybe tell her that you're not willing to go through another break up. The way she's been treating you is NOT right, and she needs to learn her lesson. It sounds to me like she's used to getting her way ALL THE TIME. Do something your way, not listening to her, that's not serious, and see how she reacts. If she get's hella pissed about it, then she's gonna have to learn that she doesn't always get her way...

As for the "I don't think you could kick anyone's ***" comments up above....I know a guy who is a complete gentleman, kind to everyone, always looking for the diplomatic way... I ended up fighting beside him in a street brawl...and he ended up putting three people in the hospital with shattered ribs, arms, and internal bleeding. So don't be dissin polite and forgiving people...

e-mail me if you want more info on that.

Answer 9

Trust your instincts.  I'm sorry that some girls are like that.

Answer 10

maybe she DID like you. maybe she got over you. maybe she is using you for your car, can she drive??? she might be two timing you.

Answer 11

why would u bother her or even talk to her?

Answer 12

Hows about finding a girl that will be true? Love aint EVERYTHING.  I still love my ex - but we moved on and make better friends than lovers.  Quit trying to live  FAIRYTALE and be real!!!!

IF you suspect and its in your face - a duck is a duck.  In your heart you know that.  Be true to you - that's the ONLY person you own now!

Answer 13

believe yourself. how old are you?

Answer 14

You don't seem like the guy who could kick anyone's butt.  

Answer 15

Past behavior is a great forecast for future behavior. You know what the definition of insanity is? Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. She is doing the same thing over and over again and you are expecting different results. You can't and won't be able to trust her again. There are a lot of fish in the sea..find one that doesn't stink!

Answer 16

Dude... forget her. She is a w***e. All she seems to want is weenier. And when things go south she comes running back to u. You are a man. Not a woman. So stop playing the ***** games. Grab your sack and kick the girl to the curb. There are c**p loads of women out there. She isn't the only one.

And u will feel better about this all after a couple of years cause she will be pregnant with her 2nd child. No baby's dad hanging around. And you are out and about still partying with your best buds having a great time.

If you continue this up she will end up pregnant and she will say its yours... but it wont be. Ditch her now before she ruins your life anymore.

Answer 17

if you trusted somebody and they cheated on you, don't trust them ever again.

Answer 18

its hard to do, but believe yourself, if you HAVE ANY doubt shes with someone else while with you.. 9 out of 10 times its true. She sounds like a cheating w***e. I know you love her. But if she loved you, you wouldnt be on and off for 3 years.. Time to man up and kick her *** to the curb.  

Answer 19

You my friend are dating a w***e, a concubine in other words.  It seems all good guys get attached to one early in life which skews our view of women for the rest of our lives.  Anyway, you know in your gut what you have to do.  You can either use her as a piece of meat or you dump her and make her life a living h**l for the next month (play with her heart/ keep acting like youll get back with her then dump her again)  She already doesn't respect you and knows she can get away with cheating on you.