I Don't Believe its ok to have s*x while you're pregnant is that ok?

Question

I just don't believe its the right thing for the child and I think that its not the right thing to do I usually only like to have s*x when a woman isn't pregnant with our child and I can wait it out

is tha ok or am i bad or wrong?

Answer 1

Hey there!

Quite a few men share your sentiments, my husband used to, as well. After my constant sharing of how neglected I felt, and encouraging him to read pregnancy books related to the expectant father, he has overcome this thought. It isn't bad or wrong if your wife/girlfriend shares these sentiments, but if she if feeling neglected or unattractive because of your null s*x life, then...it can pose an issue during pregnancy. The baby isn't harmed in anyway, most of us still seek sexual pleasure while pregnant. I, personally, couldn't stand for it, and made it known to my husband!

If your significant other is okay with this, then great, happy wait! If not, this can cause emotional issues that can lead to an uncomfortable pregnancy. I adore affection, cuddling, and yes, s*x, while pregnant, to take this away would cause damage to me.....talk, talk, talk!

I wish you the best!

Answer 2

You aren't bad...but you are so wrong.  A woman's s*x drive can even increase during pregnancy...mine did...and my husband and I did it all the time...pretty much until my last week...and we only stopped because I couldn't get into a comfortable position to do it, lol

Answer 3

you say that now....see how long that last....A lot of men think that they might hurt the baby...you won't, don't be so scary...if the Dr. says its fine then it's fine...don't worry

Answer 4

its not bad or wrong.

theres not a rule saying you HAVE to have s*x with a woman when shes pregnant. yes sometimes the doctor suggests it help her go into labor but its totally not nessesary if either one of you is going to be comfortable with it.

Answer 5

It's normal for a man to not want to have s*x while his girl is pregnant. I think it's a man thing.But you still have to think about the woman and her hormones and her needs.s*x can also make it easier on her when she delivers the baby. It can also increase labor.

Answer 6

You have the right to feel that way if you choose to, however, I can tell you from personal experience, it does not harm the mother or the baby if you have s*x while pregnant. Actually, and my husband agrees, s*x during pregnancy is the best s*x you'll ever have!

Answer 7

Thats a long time to wait, you need to find out how your wife feels. Don't deprive her, there are a ton of guys that love having s*x with pregnant women. You might give her a complex too!

Answer 8

doesnt make you bad or wrong its just it will not harm the baby if it is a normal pregnancy and everything is fine..i think its important to feel the closesness and the bond that s*x gives you with yoour partner..also your partner may be feeling unnatrractive and s*x can make her feel better..well it does me...when im feel like a fat blob it helps to make me feel that im still wanted,,still attractive and still loved etc!.

Answer 9

You're very wrong.  Under normal circumstances, s*x during pregnancy is good and helps prepare the woman's body for labor.  You can believe what you want, but your beliefs are not based on any medical or scientific facts.

Answer 10

You are not bad or wrong for thinking this way - many men have these thoughts, sometimes even women.

Unless she says that it hurts you are fine. You are going to do no harm to the child - it has no idea!!

Enjoy yourself.

Answer 11

Well you and my partner must be of the same blood. We have only had s*x 4 times in the whole pregnancy and that was at the start. He wasn't compliant and scrunched up his face the whole time.. I can understand when the baby is head down, it may be a bit off putting but when they are small and protected by the sac, I can't see much harm in that.. I have missed out on my early labor as they say something in the sperm helps ripen the cervix so it must be naturally meant to be.. (I guess I will be one of the unlucky ladies that has a 42 wk pregnancy)

Answer 12

Your asking if its ok to have the beliefs that you do? Of course its ok. But if your asking whether we feel that people shouldn't have s*x whilst pregnant, then I disagree. Baby is well protected and wont be harmed. I actually enjoyed it alot when I was pregnant, couldn't get enough, and I have 2 healthy babies!

Answer 13

you can do what you want!!

but i know exactly what i want and i will do that. its completly safe so like i said do what you want and i wll do what i want

Answer 14

Having s*x while pregnant doesnt harm your baby in any shape or form, You cant have rough s*x though, Slow love making is fine..

Look it up on Google, i did. It tells u everythin about s*x during pregnancy

Good luck x

Answer 15

The baby does not know what's going on.  It can't see what's going on and it mentally doesn't know.  The baby is completely protected in the uterus and surrounded by amniotic fluid.  Not to mention the cervix is closed and there is a mucous plug in the way of baby seeing your p***s.  

While you're entitled to your own feelings and opinion, it is kind of silly to be afraid of s*x during pregnancy.

Answer 16

Your not "bad or wrong" but you may be misinformed about the affects intercourse has on a fetus. A fetus does not comprehend what is happening during the "act". Actually the soothing rhythm of the rocking usually puts a baby to sleep so they wouldn't even be conscience during that time. I can't see why you are not able to preform. You may want to look in to your own hangups about the subject. Are you feeling as tho you are somehow harming the child, or are you no longer attracted to your partners growing body? These are certainly things you may want to think about considering you need also to think of her feelings during this time. Pregnancy brings on a ton of different emotions in a mother. "Am I ready?" "will the baby be healthy?" "will i be a good mother?" plus a ton of hormonal ups and downs. The added stress of a husband rejecting her physically really can't help in such an awkward time. You really need to think about your effect on your partner's overall emotional health.

Answer 17

Yeah, that's fine. You may indulge in a bit of self-pleasure or foreplay if you need to get rid of some extra sperm and keep your relationship passionate though.

You're very considerate.

Answer 18

Under normal circumstances there is no reason not to continue

to have s*x as long as the women is not in any pain.

Answer 19

Its neither right or wrong.

Everyone has there own opinion. And personally I'm not even thinking about s*x anymore. My husband doesn't even hint that he wants it, granted I would try if he did.

I'm 32 weeks pregnant

Thumbs down because s*x isn't a turn on anymore. Are you kidding? I remember the days when I couldn't go without it.. Just a memory now.

s*x DOES NOT HARM THE BABY AT ALL THOUGH. AND NEARING THE END IT CAN ACTUALLY HELP THE LABOR PROCESS BY SOFTENING THE CERVIX. SO AS MUCH AS I DONT LIKE IT, s*x IS GONNA HAVE TO HAPPEN!

I also thought a women's libido increases, BUT sadly it has not! It has come to the point that I can't even get into the mood

Answer 20

You can choose whatever you want, it isn't wrong. However, there is nothing MEDICALLY wrong with having s*x with your pregnant partner.

Answer 21

I have a three week old and I had s*x until the day before I had her- but that is just us. If your lady agrees with you or can wait, than that is great, I would not want to have s*x either, if I was uncomfortable or nervous about it. But it won't hurt the baby. It is in a big gushy bubble and unless her dr says no, then it is safe to go for it... but think about her too. I was in the mood ALL THE TIME. so if my man rejected me I would surely feel unattractive and unwanted... and unattended to. research it if it is the baby's safety you  are concerned about. maybe you would feel better. hope this helped. Good luck, and- CONGRATULATIONS!

Answer 22

you are entitled to feel how you feel and that isnt wrong.

Some men are not comfortable having s*x with pregnant woman, especially when the pregnancy is farther along.

Dont worry about it.....your are not a bad person for having personal thoughts and feelings.

Answer 23

No, that's perfect! I wish there were more guys like you out there...most guys don't care. And you're right, it's probably bad for the child - especially late in the pregnancy.

Answer 24

there is nothing wrong with having s*x while pregnant, and it doesn't affect the baby at all, unless the doctor has said differently.  

Answer 25

You needn't get the permission of others to justify your beliefs. Your beliefs are what they are and no one has the right to judge them. This is a decision that is strictly between you and your wife. Please do not let the advice of strangers influence what you believe.  

Answer 26

It's not really bad, although you've clearly been misinformed. It doesn't hurt the baby...the baby actually benefits from it because s*x (usually) makes a happy mommy, therefore a content baby. It's normal to feel a little uncomfortable with it, but I don't blame the mother of your child if she gets frustrated and upset with you because you won't please her.  

Answer 27

i think that you're both depriving yourselves of some good loving for almost a year.  Think about it, after she has the baby. she can't have s*x for 6-8 weeks afterwards.  why wait for 11 months to have s*x.  Trust me in about a month you'll be wanting it so bad you won't even care or notice that she is pregnant.  plus her s*x drive is going overboard right now.  why not do it while you can.  Plus, when that baby's here she won't want to have s*x because she's going to be so tired she won't be able to stay awake.  Have fun and go slow, there's a lot going on down there so make sure you don't hurt her.  try with her on top or doggie style.  trust me, you'll feel a ton better and so will she!

Answer 28

Hi! :) Having s*x soothes the woman, and helps daddy and mommy bond before baby gets here. s*x gives the baby a good sensation, first because mommy is relaxed, second because it rocks his little pool of amniotic liquid.

It's GOOD to have s*x while pregnant. Doctors say it. The baby is well protected, do not worry about him!!!

Answer 29

well to keep you happy or for you to cheat on her to get s*x from someone esle and lose everything,so guess have s*x while pregnant is good,if you can wait 9 whole months go head

Answer 30

you are so completely wrong, the baby is tucked away elsewhere. My husband and I never stopped having s*x during pregnancy

Answer 31

You're not bad or wrong for believing what you believe. s*x is a personal choice and you should never be forced into having s*x if you don't want to. Just know that you may have a very huffy wife if you don't have s*x when she wants to.