I Dreamed about him now I can't get him off my mind?

Question

OK I am in a relationship with a guy that I have been with for four years! But a couple summers ago I had a thing for this kid we will call him Tim at my summer job we both worked this job two summers in a row. We would always flirt around and we both ended breaking up with our bf/gf (His gf he also dated for a long time) This happened both summers that we worked together. We got together for a short time if you could call it that we kissed once and held hands a couple times but it never lasted long because of our long term relationships we always went back to. Well anyways for a long time after that summer I had dreams about him and its been almost a year since I talked to him and just now I woke up from dreaming about him my dream was I was at work and he came in and hugged me and I hugged him (it was so real I swear I could feel him hug me) and I said to him that I missed him so much and he said it back but mumbled it then he asked me why I showed up at his house last night and I said what do you mean? I was so confused but wanted to know more just then I got yelled at by the manager for talking to him and then I woke up. Ok now I'm so awake and can't stop thinking about him/the dream. I feel like I really do want to see him just like the dream! ugghhh What's wrong with me? I'm with a boyfriend of four years!! I seriously don't know why I had this dream about Tim I haven't seen him in over a year!

At the same time I feel like I want him to call or be at my house right now! I don't understand I don't even think about him for long long periods of time and then this happens! Ahh am I crazy??

Answer 1

No, you're not crazy, just confused. I suggest you call him and hang out with him. Weigh the pro's and con's of being with him. Decided if you want to end you're relationship with your current boyfriend.