I Feel like im wasting my life?

Question

Hey im 13 and confused:(. I stay at home most days and go on computer games or msn. my school life is awesome i have alot of mates its just school is far away and there all local to it so its hard to meet up with them. I feel like i should be doing more with my life but i don't know what. i enjoy what i do too.

IN BRiEF:

I feel like in 10 years time im going to look back on my life and say d**n u really screwed that 1 up.

But at the moment i feel like im enjoying what i do. and everybody else seems to do the same ( on msn 24/7) but it still feels like somthing is missing.

Answer 1

I know how you feel. I'M exact same but a girl.

Go out and join a tennis club or something. Or yoga. Or write a book. Whatever.

Answer 2

I KNOW. In today's world if you ain't fabulously wealthy in my estimation life just sucks!

Answer 3

you need to serve others....we think we are fulfilled doing whatever we want, but it's a lie. Jesus came to serve, and we need to follow his example. Read the book of John in the Bible. Find out how much God loves you and that he has a huge purpose for your life.  you don't have to waste your life!

Answer 4

lol, at thirteen you feel like you're wasting your life, are you serious? I know people who are eighty and are taking all kinds of classes and there are people who are dead who are still not wasting their lives by donating their body parts to science, so it's up to you, when do you want to stop wasting your life now or later when your dead.

Answer 5

why don't you and your school friends pick a place to meet up once or twice a week.

come up with somewhere close enough to you all.

weather its just a park or shop,  it doesn't matter.

go there and hang out.

you'll have a lot of fun and make more out of your time rather than spending your life on the internet. =]

hope i helped

Child Of Satan

x*x

Answer 6

I feel the same way, the best answer I can give you is make plans with your friends to do right after school...

but yea, try to keep busy is all I can tell you.

Answer 7

Dont be so hard on yourself! You are a prime time teenager you should be totally enjoying your youth.

Answer 8

u need to get laid

Answer 9

I agree with Ms. Bossy.

Try to get out and do something for others. It will make you feel useful and you will be making a difference for someone else.

Go visit a nursing home. Elderly people love to see young people.

I would suggest giving blood but you are too young for that...

Volunteer at an animal shelter.

Get involved with a Habitat for Humanity group.

There are so many things you can do for others.

Answer 10

don't worry you're still young, life gets better as time progresses.

Answer 11

jogging is actually nice to do, more of a nature thing for me.

but you obviously cannot jog all day.

maybe you could learn how to design websites, since you are cumfortable with computers who knows, you might come up with the next e-bay or my-space or what ever,

it would be nice if you hook my family upwith some dough if you do make it rich...hehehe serious though, it would make a great news story.

Answer 12

i think u need to love someone

i know i do

and i feel you same way

Answer 13

Well, I see that your conscience is calling up on you..

I mean try to think of a life whereby you won't look back and be full of regrets.

You can go and do some community services, like the hospital and the orphanage

even the library

Read some books that will make you not only smart but also wise...

Do some planting

Sports ...

There're many things to do in life

Answer 14

I figure if I were you I'd go out with my mates more often; so what if they're a little far away? The exercise of getting there will do you good. Your mates would probably be happy to see you too. Go for it. Have a good time.

Answer 15

That's seems to be no fun. Try getting your parents to allow you to get together with your friends one night a week or every Saturday or something. You guys can have your parents car pool you to the mall and then another parent bring everyone home. Yeah, you might live far away, but try not be embarassed by your parents (that seems to usually be the case these days) and be seen with her in the car...so she can drop you off somewhere!

Answer 16

your 13 you cant really do much yet beacuse you cant drive. hey when i was 13 i only went out on like special occasions or when me and my bestfriends would just go out but we dont go out all the time. now that im 16 i can drive places so it is easier to go out and meet with friends. and plus both my parents are always out so they cant really take me places. they just  bring be to school or take me home. soo its really ok to be  home. i think that ever ur doing is normal. like going on the computer. because when ur on the computer your still socializing so its fine :] i think most people your age are doing the same :]]