I HAD a REALLY BIG PROBLEM and i hope you do help me pleaase:?

Question

i am a student living in hostel...i had a friend who i consider(he is male too") good....

i even wanted to have room with him but i always help him,even if i had work or anyting and whenever i need help,he says straightaway 'no' which pinches me a lot

its not only 'no' once but many times...and this time when i really needed help he again refused..this hurt me lot

from 3 days i had been ignoring him,he asked me was there any problem why i am a bit changed once,but now he is not taking to me...

dont know about him but i feel very heavy from inside and abit miserable..i cant do nothing

WHAT SHALL I DO

Answer 1

JUst give him room to breathe. Leave him alone for a while.

Answer 2

Now I know why hardly anyone has answered this... HUH???

Answer 3

u can find better friends who wot refuse to help...friend r there to help not to sy "NO"...hes obviously not a good friend ashe keeps on refusing to help u

Answer 4

dont you think its best to tell him what is bothering you, also ask him why he is so reluctant to help you out from time to time.  You both would feel  a lot happier in the end this will either make or break your relationship.

Good luck

Answer 5

talk to him about what you said in this question. tell him that you always help him and feel hurt when he says no to you all the time. talk about it, get it out into the open

Answer 6

the best thing you can do is sit him down and tell him whats bothering you.  maybe if you show him that you even posted a question on here about it, it will make him see how much it bothers you.  if you just talk to him about it, he should understand why it bothers you if he's that good of a friend.  im sure youll work it out.  good luck