I HATE MY BROTHER I NEED HELP

Question

We are on vacation and the last 3 days he keeps hitting me and i don't do anything to him he is 5 years older than me but i think my mind is bigger and last night he hit me again but i couldnt stand it so i punched him back *not very hard* so then he punched me really hard on my head and i felt dizzy i need help i cant stand him , my parents think he is big now and cant yell at him

Answer 1

the best way ---neglect him

fighting is not the anwser

if he stll does it go to-------- police

Answer 2

um that's abuse. you need to all go see a counselor.

Answer 3

take Tae Kwan DO

Answer 4

wtf? Tell your parents they're f-ing idiots.

Answer 5

Have you ever tried talking to him and told him how you feel when he hits you?  If so, does he take it seriously or does he laugh at you? It appears that he is  trying to control you when he hits you.  When you hit him back, it's like giving him permission to continue with the hitting.  Your parents have an obligation to protect you and from what you are saying, they are not doing so.  Because your brother is an adult, he could go to jail for assault.  You need to either tell a trusted adult to help you talk to your parents about this or pick up the phone and call the police dept. the next time he hits you.  I bet you he won't try to bully the officer who will have more power over him.  The officer can certainly take him away if you have marks on you, but for sure will have a very serious talk with him and your parents.  You have a right to feel safe and don't feel guilty if you call for help. He doesn't feel sorry for you when he hits you as he has continued to do so.  

Answer 6

Your brother is a real jerk. Do you have a pastor you can talk to or a teacher?  Your parents should be looking after you and not ignoring the fact that your brother is hitting on you.

Answer 7

beat the sh*t outta him... when he hits u again, just flip out and punch him

Answer 8

wait....how old are you?

Answer 9

i think you should tell your parents that you are really hurt by the way he is treating you.

also tell your brother that all you want is peace and do not want to fight with him.

--good luck i hope you figure things out

Answer 10

Give him the old nut charlie horse everytime... that will make him think twice.. or black mail him

Answer 11

This one is really easy...since you are only 14 years old and he is 19, your brother is committing a felony every time he hits you. It's called "child abuse" and the law really frowns upon this.

Since it sounds like your parents don't take the assaults that he commits on you seriously enough, you need to shake things up in your home.  The next time he hits you, call the police and make a report. When the officer comes out to your house and asks if you want to press charges say YES -- although since you are a minor the police really don't need permission from you to pursue a case against your brother -- just tell the officer the entire history of your brother's abuse of you.  This will cause major problems for your parents as well as your brother and should wake them up to the serious problem in their house.  The police will probably call in social workers and your parents and your brother will have to spend time talking with these people, and their intrusion into your family's life will definitely get your parent's attention on this matter.

I was a victim of an older brother's constant abuse as a kid and never forgot it.  The memory of him hitting me constantly is so vivid that decades later I have nothing more to do with my brother as I feel nothing but contempt for his memory. It doesn't matter that I am now much larger and stronger than my older brother, his early abuse of me made me hate him and I still carry those bad feelings with me to this day. It is better that you resolve this now while you are both still young so maybe you will have a chance for a relationship with your brother when you are both older. If you let things continue as they are, you too one day will completely disown your brother as I have done with mine.

Don't be afraid to call the police as that is your only alternative at this point if you want the abuse to stop -- your parents aren't doing their job by letting your older brother hit on you. They are as guilty of abuse as your brother is because they are letting his hitting on you continue. If you try to fight your older brother as I did back then, he will only hurt you worse because he is much larger and stronger than you are right now. It is much better to resolve things now with a visit from the police than let this abuse continue.

Answer 12

tell him they are being unfair and should punish him for

hurting you . they are jerks for letting him hit you like that.  

Answer 13

knucle punch him stright in the nuts

Answer 14

scare him with witchcraft. once you tell him you do it and maybe really do a little something to him, you'll intimidate him.