I HATE MY MOM and i need help ?

Question

my mom and i have been get in fights and my mom has been kicking me and I'm getting mad cuz i get whatever i wont and now that is all changing and its making me mad and i get more things taken away win i yell at her and i don't no how to stop myself from causing at her and yelling at her plez help

Answer 1

First of all work on your spelling you spoiled little brat then we`ll talk !

K

Second : Your moms disciplining you .  

Answer 2

don't listen to the negatives, why are you fighting, is it something you can fix, or not even fix just pretend like every things okay, make your mum a cuppa every once in a while.

be angry in private or just vent to your friends, also with the kicking, curl up and look like your trying to hide behind your arms.

maybe she'll see your scared.

that's been working for me, i know it seems crappy but it works, you've gotta live your life with these people, try and not get up in arms with them.

if not just ask back.

Answer 3

Why don't you just stop it? You can't get mad at the world because you're getting things taken away. This is called LIFE, welcome to it because you won't be getting everything you want when you get into the real world. You say you can't stop yelling at her, but if you want you stuff back so bad, why can't you?

Answer 4

You need an attitude adjustment.

Answer 5

You can't always get what you want...and if you try sometimes your just might find you get what you need. There IS meaning to that song you know...

Answer 6

go back to english ; learn to spell

then tell me about your obnoxious life, of not getting everything you want.

Answer 7

u sound like one of those kids off of my super sweet 16.

Answer 8

spoiled little brat

Answer 9

What?!?

I don't understand.

Answer 10

I hate your mom too

Answer 11

that sounds really great compared to my mom.  

Answer 12

You seriously need to work on your spelling.You also need to learn you cannot have everything you want in life,no one gets that.You keep trying to get everything you want, your going to find out you didn't want some of those things after all and the responsibilities and consequences that come with them  will some of the things you will get that you do not want hon.Listen to your Mom,she loves you and knows what is best for you.She sees things you do not see because she has been there and done that.You haven;t got her life experience hon.

Answer 13

At this point your mom is going on rampage on you and there is no way you can stop her - execpt stop her in her tracks, what do i mean ? Revenge.  First of all if your mom is kicking you, thats abusive so you can start off by reporting it to 911.com ( if you are to shy to call them on the phone).   If by some reason you wont do that, report her on 911.com if she does anything illegal in her life at all, if you report her then the officails will come down to your house and take care of things. If you even wont do that, then you can call or run down to some shelter and explain it to them. If you have friends that you know well, then you can run away from your mom and go to friends house to stay there. Call some society that your mom is harrasing you ( kicking you), and tell them that you want to be taken away. Or the easiest way to stop her dead in her tracks. Make her " faint " due to her own emotionally state. I mean is that if she keeps taking stuff away from you , or keeps yelling at you to go to bed, or telling you not to do something, what you have to do is get her to a point where she passes out or stops, by making her angry enough. How?  she tells you to stop, you keep doing it no matter how many times she says stop. if your in a yelling situation then keep screaming at her all day long even if she stops. she tells you to go to bed, then dont and stay up and make her know it to, she takes something away from you, you scream and shout and throw things at the wall, colour on the walls, rip the sofa, spill drink all over the ground, make a mess of the place. if you do any or all of these this will cause so much stress on her to where she cant take it anymore and she faints, if she retreats later, repeat it and make her faint again, then you won the situation. Now she might try to abuse you some more, much more, if you do all this, well if she abuses you enough and puts bruises on you, well hey buddy you won again and all you have to do is report it on 911.com with all the information you have, and then they will come down to your house and either take you away, or take your mom away, and then my friend, you won the battle with your mom.

Answer 14

OMG!!!!!!! you are pissed becuase you are not getting what you want?

Answer 15

aaaawwww you used to get everything and now you don't?

thats so terribly sad. GET OVER IT.

and heres a suggestion, stop being a little spoiled brat, and maybe you'll understand your mom's point of view better.

and you know what, you can do anything you set your mind to.

so don't make an excuse that you don't know how to stop.

and honestly think about all those people in this world who have absolutely nothing, not even a shelter over there heads, and yet they respect their mothers. If their mother decided to take their life away, they probably would not object. [im not saying that mothers actually do that, not often, at least.]

and material things come and go.

but maybe 20 years from now you will go on and realize how childish and absurd your behavior was.

Answer 16

I believe what your experiencing is called adolescence!  Hundreds of thousands of teenagers go through the same thing day after day.

You need to communicate with your mum and tell her what you want, in turn she will tell you what she wants and you can both agree on a compromise.

The world does NOT revolve around you! and it NEVER will.  The sooner you get used to this the easier your life will become.

If you choose to carry on the way you are, it will be ok, you can learn the hard way when you are older!

I wish you luck in the hope that you and your mother will work things out very soon!